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  1. Scientia

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    Ha ha ha. So being human undid it for you.

    I cannot remember a crush being ended for that reason. Generally crushes stopped happening for me at 15 and then plain old lust set in but at the time I thought it was love.
     
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    I'm automatically turned off by cigarette smoking and bad eating habits. Other things? Bad b.o., guys who don't shower everyday, blatant sexist comments, guys that refer to women as "bitches" or "hoes" (I hear a lot of guys say this on the subway), blatant rudeness, republicans, bad taste in music, fake tans, guys who talk only about themselves, a guy who isn't good with his hands, etc.

    I could go on forever.
     
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    Aw.. thats not bad if he's a stand up guy. Maybe he just has a lot down there or they were bothering him and chaffing his pants. It's pretty normal. As long as he wasn't a creeper or nasty about it.
     
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    Talking badly about their exes, obsessively going on and on about them or speaking horribly about people they've been intimate with.
     
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    Oh yes. Seriously, some people almost forget you are there and go on and on.
     
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    A guy called his mother a bitch

    bad breath

    b.o.

    chewing tobacco

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    In elementary school I was crushing on the smartest kid in the class until I saw him tracing North America while I was drawing it. Tracers. No thanks.
     
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    This is beyond funny.
     
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    The guys life might change if someone told him he was doing it. He may not even know.
    That is a bit odd but I try not to judge.
     
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    LOL omg... yeah... thats too much.
     
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    It's so nauseating isn't it? Its such a red flag too and a great indicator of how selfish they would be in a relationship.
     
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    being a jerk (to put it nicely.) (Different than blunt or abrasive.)
     
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    And a guy who sneezes obnoxiously loud. Control that shit. Loud noises send me into a rage.
     
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    :) This one guy I dated sneezed SO LOUD that I almost felt he was purposely being obnoxious. He denied doing it on purpose but I don't know. Grrrr.

    I wouldn't even say 'bless you' that's how annoyed I was.
     
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    Lol you wouldn't even say bless you xD
    Damn you! Damn you to hell for sneezing so loud!!!
    Hahahaha xD *falls*
     
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    Lol :) Yes, the 'bless you' was replaced with a disgusted look and sometimes a 'what the F@&$.'

    It really was that loud. I'm annoyed just thinking about it.
     
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    It's my worst nightmare that when I have a crush she suddenly turns out to be a smoker.
     
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