I've dated many types..mostly those who I saw something amazing in. I really think my first love..my five year high school boy. Was an INFJ..he was just very young and unaware of how to handle his deep feelings. He just recently reached out to me. To ask for forgiveness. He quoted word for word conversations we had as teenagers. Come on a guy remembering verbatim, what you said to him 20 years ago. Wow mind blown.
Then came hell...my husband..malignant narcassitic scociopath...
Abuse, gaslighting, manipulation, cheating, physical abuse, I became a sheild for our children. He dooped me. And everyone else for that matter. The day he pulled his proverbial mask off will haunt me forever. Born unto one ( my father) I was a shield for my siblings. Trapped by another. I was KO'ed. I finally snapped out of it after ten years. Broke free took my babies and ran.
Not far enough. I broke in all sence of the word. I landed in a behavioral health unit. Diagnosed with extreem PTSD...Lord how will I ever forgive myself. When I fell, my children tumbled right into his lap. I'm on my way to Illinois. To battle this monster for custody. He has my three angels locked away behind a falsified protective order. He has cut everyone out of their lives including his own family. 'Cause they dared to challenge him and support me. He has moved a twenty-five year old girl in with him. Impregnated her. Is now touting her my children's mother!! Has a massive online smear campain going. All I care about is my children's well being. I'm stronger than I have ever been now.
I will fight..fight like I never have before. That will be a sight to see. It's not for me it's for my precious innocent ones. I swear I feel them, I know they are in pain. That alone will drive me till they are liberated from his reign of terror. Monsters are real. They are in the form of humans that is where true horror lies.
I've dated many types..mostly those who I saw something amazing in. I really think my first love..my five year high school boy. Was an INFJ..he was just very young and unaware of how to handle his deep feelings. He just recently reached out to me. To ask for forgiveness. He quoted word for word conversations we had as teenagers. Come on a guy remembering verbatim, what you said to him 20 years ago. Wow mind blown.
Then came hell...my husband..malignant narcassitic scociopath...
Abuse, gaslighting, manipulation, cheating, physical abuse, I became a sheild for our children. He dooped me. And everyone else for that matter. The day he pulled his proverbial mask off will haunt me forever. Born unto one ( my father) I was a shield for my siblings. Trapped by another. I was KO'ed. I finally snapped out of it after ten years. Broke free took my babies and ran.
Not far enough. I broke in all sence of the word. I landed in a behavioral health unit. Diagnosed with extreem PTSD...Lord how will I ever forgive myself. When I fell, my children tumbled right into his lap. I'm on my way to Illinois. To battle this monster for custody. He has my three angels locked away behind a falsified protective order. He has cut everyone out of their lives including his own family. 'Cause they dared to challenge him and support me. He has moved a twenty-five year old girl in with him. Impregnated her. Is now touting her my children's mother!! Has a massive online smear campain going. All I care about is my children's well being. I'm stronger than I have ever been now.
I will fight..fight like I never have before. That will be a sight to see. It's not for me it's for my precious innocent ones. I swear I feel them, I know they are in pain. That alone will drive me till they are liberated from his reign of terror. Monsters are real. They are in the form of humans that is where true horror lies.
I have sent you a private message I hope you'll read. Now please forgive me for this, but I must point out a typo in the last sentence of my comment you quoted in which I referred to an INFJ as another personality type. So sorry to take focus away from you for something so unimportant.I've dated many types..mostly those who I saw something amazing in. I really think my first love..my five year high school boy. Was an INFJ..he was just very young and unaware of how to handle his deep feelings. He just recently reached out to me. To ask for forgiveness. He quoted word for word conversations we had as teenagers. Come on a guy remembering verbatim, what you said to him 20 years ago. Wow mind blown.
Then came hell...my husband..malignant narcassitic scociopath...
Abuse, gaslighting, manipulation, cheating, physical abuse, I became a sheild for our children. He dooped me. And everyone else for that matter. The day he pulled his proverbial mask off will haunt me forever. Born unto one ( my father) I was a shield for my siblings. Trapped by another. I was KO'ed. I finally snapped out of it after ten years. Broke free took my babies and ran.
Not far enough. I broke in all sence of the word. I landed in a behavioral health unit. Diagnosed with extreem PTSD...Lord how will I ever forgive myself. When I fell, my children tumbled right into his lap. I'm on my way to Illinois. To battle this monster for custody. He has my three angels locked away behind a falsified protective order. He has cut everyone out of their lives including his own family. 'Cause they dared to challenge him and support me. He has moved a twenty-five year old girl in with him. Impregnated her. Is now touting her my children's mother!! Has a massive online smear campain going. All I care about is my children's well being. I'm stronger than I have ever been now.
I will fight..fight like I never have before. That will be a sight to see. It's not for me it's for my precious innocent ones. I swear I feel them, I know they are in pain. That alone will drive me till they are liberated from his reign of terror. Monsters are real. They are in the form of humans that is where true horror lies.
Forgive
I have sent you a private message I hope you'll read.
Now please forgive me for this, but I must point out a typo in the last sentence of my comment you quoted in which I referred to an INFJ as another personality type. So sorry to take focus away from you for something so unimportant.
ENTPs by far I think.
Yes! That is why I love INFJs!Tools and narcissistic tools.
But the problem is that as INFJs we just need something very deep and real. Its all fun and games until your in love, and the NT cant or wont express anything back.....either way its the same result....idk I want someone to care about my emotions and know when to the cash in the chips and ASK me for something. NTs will either abuse your giving nature or will never ask you for anything....which ts a type of devaluing.
Wow... Check the mic... Highlighter is spittin truth!
I don't see NTs as deliberately abusing anyone for any reason. Of course there are exceptions to every rule but as an NT, its not something that's built into us. Not recepocating could be true but again it's not really a choice...AND maybe you just don't know how to recognize when something is being reciprocated by an NT. For instance, I do things for people. I try to make their lives better, make things simpler or create something I think they will enjoy when I like or love them to whatever extent I can or do.
I do love grocery shopping. Not at 6am though.There are usually infjs at supermarkets. Try 6am.
Def not at 6 amI do love grocery shopping. Not at 6am though.