Smokers! It would be really nice to be able to breathe clean air in own home. I don't care if you smoke or not, but please... There are others living in the building too.
I recognize this, I always try to set up a time and place to meet unless I don't care that occasion. In my mind I'm like if people cant respect that maybe they don't respect my time. I'm not just on demand for everyone waiting for them to make up or share their mind. My time is valuable to me, even if I waste it I want it to be by my choice. Also the clothing thing.. Yeah I definitely always want to be prepared for the occasion at hand. Other times I might have put myself in a situation by choice where I have to be more like water and go with the flow to have peace of mind. Just accept and let go.
@charlatan - I always ask her what we are doing and when and she rarely answers my questions, even if she replies.
Asa said:When I know I'm going somewhere "later", but not when, my whole day shifts around that event, waiting, and making sure I'm not in the middle of something that can't be interrupted, etc. My whole day has to revolve around that event and that indecision. So, that freedom from planning actually turns out to be more restricting than making a plan.
I want to know when well in advance so I have time to wrap my head around the event, get used to the idea of socializing, and be prepared.
Ugh, ME. Why I keep doing the same stupid crap again and again.