These are the INFJ forums!

In a way, this reminded me of INTPcentral, but I totally see what you're talking about.

 

This summed up exactly what I've been feeling lately.

 

Nicely said. I don't think that much needs to really be added to that. Well thought out and well written. I have noticed that we INFJ's do not bicker amounst ourselves (for the most part--see I don't need to say that here as it's understood!). Most of the bickering is between INFJ's and another types. This doesn't mean we can't be asses, and wrong, like any other type. But I follow your message and second it!

 

I think the source of this problem is closer than we think. Shai and TLM are both ENTP's.
We're just pieces in one of their dark, obscure games.

 

And stop coming in here to hunt for INFJ boyfriends or girlfriends, for christs sake. Its creepy.

 

Shai and Deathjam are ENTPs
TLM is an ENTJ

 

Aren't we all?
By the way, are you free tomorrow night?

Conspiracy time!

 

What does that meeeean!?!?

 

At first I was thinking "No! No! don't say that! sshhh!"
then I thought "Oh"
"Infj conflict avoidance."
Carry on then.

 

Now I want a sign in my room that says "Don't bicker with the INFJ."

 

why am i bothered by this language?

 

Someone has to keep you lot honest though!

 

Because you're not an animal and you're more than capable of standing up for yourself?

 

As a long time forum mod and admin I wouldn't agree with a statement like this usually. But this isn't the usual statement and I think holds a lot of truth and a lot of merit. Von has been wise to say what I think needs to be said with out pushing everyone out.

For the record I don't want other types to leave. I like having you guys here. So please don't leave. This is not about pushing you away.

But this forum purpose is for INFJs to deal with issues. That we have and yes that may inlucde, types we don't get along with, rants , be INFJ'y, be angry, emo, and whatever we need to cope with these issues. I don't want anyone to leave. But I want to be able to use this forum for its intended purpose.

I want people to let me be INFJ while I'm here and stop trying to tell me to be something I'm not.

No there is a difference I want other types here I just want people torealize that we aren't different and thats ok.

I don't want to shut down the forum to just us. But I want to be able to speak my mind without getting bitched at for what I need to say. or for being who I am.

Thats all I want.

Yes thank you Billy this has been bugging the living hell out of me. I don't go to other forums trolling for booty. I would appreciate we didn't have it here.

We still people like any other type.

One more thing I think this needs repeating. WE are J types and we judge and I'm sick of being told when I say something that I can't do that because of exceptions. As Von mentioned I'm well aware thank you.

I hope we can clear the air a little bit. Because lately I've been less willing to come and just let my INFJness out.

 

but, the infj forums are my home. when I came here, originally, I thought I was an INFJ. I have the most posts here than any of those other forums. I don't want to be outed cause I'm not 'one of you' when I came here originally I was greeted like I WAS one of you, and for a while you all embraced me and then all of the sudden I was a 'different type' and somehow inferior.