Hypothetically...
If a man goes up to a woman and calls her names repeatedly, and the woman punches the man
Is the woman in the wrong?
a) It is wrong to take it to a physical level, but the situation could be understandable from their perspective if the other person when that person is forcing themselves
repeatedly on them. Describe the whole situation.
b) Let's spice it up and switch the roles here:
-> If a man goes up to a man and calls him names repeatedly, and the man would punch the other man. Is he wrong?
-> If a woman goes up to a woman and calls her names repeatedly, and the she would punch the other woman. Is she wrong?
-> If a woman goes up to a man and calls him names repeatedly, and the man would punch the woman. Is he wrong?
The whole question provokes a gender bias..
What should have been asked: If a person goes up to another person and calls them names repeatedly, and that person punches the other person, is that person in the wrong? -> Refer to point a