Unfortunately according to the title and description we are incapable of doing so.
However I refuse to be looked after by some dimwitted caregiver. I'm that damn stubborn.
I loled when I saw this;
inclination towards tenderness rather than agressive approach
I can admit it- If someone is willing to take care of me I will let them, not because I need it but because I like it.
(Disclaimer: I don't mean financially. I mean.. cooking for me, fixing things for me, pampering me..lol I'm a monster!)
Love it. I know my inner psyche isn't all hugs and fuzzy teddy bears. There's my paranoid self, who thinks every time a partner opens her mouth the words "I don't love you anymore" must surely be coming.