Let's be aware of the fact that Ryutech's first language is probably Deutsch, and thus, he has a hard time explaining himself accurately. Just a thought.
Dont be too mean if i do typos or have bad grammar.
Let's be aware of the fact that Ryutech's first language is probably Deutsch, and thus, he has a hard time explaining himself accurately. Just a thought.
Was someone being rude? I thought this was progressing with zero conflict.
Dont be too mean if i do typos or have bad grammar.
I'm just standing up for you man.
Your need to be needed by your partner is probably what is defining your relationships. BUT being less needy, and more self-sufficient makes one more able to care for a needy partner.Thats pretty much mixed isnt it? Having Needs met is a part of beeing comfortable but things you dont need can still make you comfortable. Beeing comfortable is the result of many things and in terms of happyness much more important than just your needs.
EDIT: Im so unsure about this question xD Its not something i'd normally think about cause its about what i need and feel comfortable with ^^' In relationship i tend to focus on hers more than mine.
Till now i got direct after it was too late. Since the breakup i unconciously began to be more direct early on if somethings up. I dont like it though because it can hurt pretty much at first so i cant really tell "when" im direct but i try to be more often to prevent Selfdestruction.
Your need to be needed by your partner is probably what is defining your relationships. BUT being less needy, and more self-sufficient makes one more able to care for a needy partner.
I think there's a contradiction in your situation, which is causing problems. I think you are looking for a mutually codependent relationship. I don't know if such a thing is possible, since codependent relationships usually have a controlling partner, who supplies; and a controlled partner who receives.
I think you are trying to be both. In my opinion, you have to either decide to be the controlled needy partner, or the controlling independent partner.
(I personally think mutually independent relationships, where neither partner needs the other are likely to be happier... but not everyone is independent).
Your need to be needed by your partner is probably what is defining your relationships. BUT being less needy, and more self-sufficient makes one more able to care for a needy partner.
I think there's a contradiction in your situation, which is causing problems. I think you are looking for a mutually codependent relationship. I don't know if such a thing is possible, since codependent relationships usually have a controlling partner, who supplies; and a controlled partner who receives.
I think you are trying to be both. In my opinion, you have to either decide to be the controlled needy partner, or the controlling independent partner.
(I personally think mutually independent relationships, where neither partner needs the other are likely to be happier... but not everyone is independent).
Save many broken people to get back to living.
Fix myself first then fix others ^^'What is your plan to do this:
That sounds like a good planFix myself first then fix others ^^'
piece by piece, inch by inch, through perseverance progress is possible.
Yep. I try to plant as many seeds as possible, day by day. May not see the fruit in our lifetime, but that's no excuse to twitter our nethers.