Other infj’s only attracting mean men?

[Jopetzki]

Nope.

 

[Moranga]

I'm sorry you feel you have to be "guarded and suspicious." I wish it weren't so.

I find that to be my default INFJ state. I really have to consciously open myself up to trusting that some people are good, will like me for who I am and if someone hurts or rejects me I will still be okay. I'll still be awesome, just not right for them.

Indeed Purple

 

[dZpADTLrPmX4c]

I’ve been meaning to journal for a long time but keep procrastinating it. Plants are a wonderful hobby. I also visit the ocean an hour away from here when i can, i feel grounded and at peace watching the waves and smelling the salty air, i really recommend it for stress and negative thoughts

Ohhhh the ocean... I miss it. You're totally right about watching waves and the air. Something about ocean breezes is different.
Why do you feel you keep procrastinating it?

 

[grt$5vb]

Yes, i wish that too. Dating should be fun and not make you cry and feel horrible afterwards. Sounds like it’s a wonderful «default» the , that’s how it should be and the most healthy mindset when it comes to dating and rejection

Dating should be fun. The guy should be a gentleman and he should make you feel like the most important person in the room. You should have his attention, his smile and his eye contact. I have always dated men who completely ignored me on dates. A friend took me out a few times and treated me so well. I want to be treated like that from now on and you deserve respect and tenderness, as well.

 

[Malena]

Ohhhh the ocean... I miss it. You're totally right about watching waves and the air. Something about ocean breezes is different.
Why do you feel you keep procrastinating it?

I know, it does feel different. And safe and hopeful <3 i’ve overcome so much pain on my own, i feel a certain resistance towards it for some reason

Dating should be fun. The guy should be a gentleman and he should make you feel like the most important person in the room. You should have his attention, his smile and his eye contact. I have always dated men who completely ignored me on dates. A friend took me out a few times and treated me so well. I want to be treated like that from now on and you deserve respect and tenderness, as well.

I hope you meet someone to treat you as your friend and reject everyone who dosen’t. Thank you

 

[grt$5vb]

I hope you meet someone to treat you as your friend and reject everyone who dosen’t. Thank you

Thank you. That is very kind. Those are wise words and I need to listen to them!

 

[Malena]

Thank you. That is very kind. Those are wise words and I need to listen to them!

Yes you do, many bad/shallow people out there and a man would be lucky to have you!

 

[grt$5vb]

Yes you do, many bad/shallow people out there and a man would be lucky to have you!

Wow, thanks! You as well.

 

[Malena]

Wow, thanks! You as well.

Your welcome. You’ve been with a narcisisst and men don’t treat you right at dates, that tells me that your a empathic person and they probably saw that too and hence wanted your company. So i hope that the next man you’ll meet is mature and kind like your friend and someone at your own level no time for these idiots

 

[grt$5vb]

Your welcome. You’ve been with a narcisisst and men don’t treat you right at dates, that tells me that your a empathic person and they probably saw that too and hence wanted your company. So i hope that the next man you’ll meet is mature and kind like your friend and someone at your own level no time for these idiots

Amen, sister, preach, it girl. Ain't NOBODY got time for that!

 

[HJpAjcdO0X]

Many has said they thought i was «cool» and «hard to get», but got dissapointed when they got to know me, but they would love to keep fucking me if that’s okay. It makes me sick.

*smh* You're preaching to Noah about the flood lol. Idk if any of these types have considered that if I wanted straight sex from someone and NOTHING else I could hire someone to do that with waaaaay less bullshit. Last time I check I'm not a bag of trail mix..keeping what you want, tossing what you don't.