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[INTP] INTP/INFJ - The Golden Pair

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    Yeah, it's mind-blowing if it can be reproduced and validated
     
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    Been on my mind for three years
     
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    how is it going on ? ( madam ) is that your lover giving you time to time hugs or not ? hehe
     
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    yea she must be getting hugs and kisses time to time in her lovers very long arms.
     
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    Added a type's average salary to the analysis taken from here:
    https://www.businessinsider.com/the-personality-types-that-earn-the-most-and-least-money-2015-2

    Results appear to be correlated to cluster...

    The first screenshot shows average salary, and the second shows the relative distance to power. This suggests a demarcation between insiders and outsiders, and an even starker contrast to power

    Sociological implications are many and possibly large
     

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    Observations are compelling in my judgement
     
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    MBTI pwned
     
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    Another hammer...

    Added the infamous MBTI IQ internet results to the analysis, and it's correlated to cluster as well, and nearly an inverse to income

    Power doesn't have the lowest IQ though--their conformist support does

    Lost em
     

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    LOL then re-group clusters by outsiders, power and their support and the glue--nearly 33/33/33 split

    Guess they needed the numbers to sustain control
     

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    I (INTP) am in a long term relationship with INFJ. Here are my observations:

    I know INTP and INFJ are supposed to be mind-mates and intellectual twins, but me and my INFJ are more compatible emotionally than intelectually. When it comes to laughing, fooling around, banter, cuddling...we are extremely compatible. I would give it 10/10.

    Intellectually, a bit less. While I'm amazed at her people skills and insights (doesn't harm that she is training for psychotherapist), we have a bit different life philosophy. For me, focusing on personal growth, career, finance is my primary objective. She is much more interested in politics, income inequality, and more broad-topics. Basically, she cares for the world and weak more than me. Also, for my taste she is too careless with money (likes to buy gifts even for her most distant friends) and sucks at time managment, prioritozing tasks and doing pro-cons lists.

    When we debate and reach an impasse, I am much more likely to back down and change my opinion, She is stubburn to a fault. Basically, her Ti child is a bit too confident and cocky for me.

    I do like her emotional stability and calmness, though. But that's not so much about her type. She is very low in neuroticism. Basically, I'm higher in conscientiousness and lower in agreebleness, but she is lower in neuroticism (although she can explode with anger on occasion). I'd say she is more prone to anger, but I am more prone to withdraw and pessimism.

    In my experience, NTP + NTJ are a better match intellectually. But terrible emotionally. There's always this heaviness when dealing with NTJ, especially INTJ.
     
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    You're right. You really won't get that intellectual jolt in debates that INTPs crave from an INFJ. Although, they do it better than most feelers

    ENFPs are probably the best feeler type to have those debates with because Ne x Ne can be pretty fun, and they're much more willing to humor multiple positions on a topic

    You're also right about the NTP + NTJ thing--that doesn't work for my tastes. It's nice to have someone who gets how to be unemotional, but then you just end up craving feelings

    I was once dating an ENFP and INTJ at the same time for a few weeks or so. That actually worked out pretty well for me, but I had to choose one at some point

    Really, it puts an INTP in an odd position because we need the feeling aspect and the intellectualism. I don't think there's a type that is perfect on both ends. Best bet is INFJ or ENFP and just learn to adapt

    Also, don't back down from INFJ stubborness. F that
     
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    I think I get it now. INTPs do the cold-warm thing while INFJs do warm-cold
     
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    Simply put I think there is some merit. Ti tertiary is very internal and can appear cold.
     
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    I think INTP coldness can be quite a myth. I mean, Ne-Fe. Those two things are super bubbly. Possibly the most bubbly of extroverted functions
     
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    That's great, Cleve! :)

    I think so, too. ^^ Warm and cold are still general judgements, tho. So, yes. Can have merit!


    I would say that between INTP and INFJ it depends alot on personalities as well, but generally I would say to look out for amount (especially amount of Fe, as inferior it can be easier go into overwhelm) and fields of interest (Ti), especially with either a draw towards Fe or Te fields of interests.

    My lower Ti sometimes when expressed can be too passionate if something is of real interest to me. On the other hand I'm not too much into Te subjects but my SO picks those topics up naturally as well to feed into his Ti.
    Ni-Ne toggling can be very fun, creating something together! And there are of course also interesting overlaps: think about an INTP programming training modules (with mature Fe), so with someone with a Fe-Ti orientation you can insert alot of UX and design (peoples' needs, psychology, behaviour) into the shared pot.

    (Just to give some additional examples.)
     
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    I work with an INTP currently. We're implementing an enterprise wide service desk platform. I lean on his Ti to functionally make the platform and he looks to my Fe to understand how users will experience the UX and design.
     
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    I love design, user experience and psychology

    Possibly my favorite things
     
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    Yes, exactly this!

    I've also worked with ISTJ and ISTP programmers, and honestly.. I missed the big picture programming (structuring) that Ne brings to the table.
     
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    That's what I mean with finding overlap, when there is mature or interetest in inferior Fe is involved.

    My SO likes it too but not exactly "like" me. It's the same interchange what @Daustus described above. It's a shared interest that's engaged with from two different sides of the same spectrum, each still with a toe dipped into the other side if you know what I mean.
     
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