Barnabas
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So I had this funny conversation with a friend of mine, she had been out on "date" with her ex-boyfriend, more or less it was her just reconnecting after not seeing him for four years.
About a week later me, another male friend of mine(tim) and her ex are hanging out at a chik-fil-a, simply passing conversation and goofing off. From their we left, me and tim take off and she and her ex head off to spend some time together.
Me and her hang out a few days later, and she reveals that while at first her ex liked me, now he seems doesn't like me and he feels like I'm trying to get inside his head.
I had to laugh when she said that, it really was hilarious, I definitely wasn't intentionally trying to mess with him. Truthfully I don't have any real problem with the guy, I know he wants to get back together with her, but she doesn't want a relationship at the moment and I feel like him pushing it is only to his detriment and I'm more then willing to wait for her. To be fair their are nights were I've really felt like I might kill him, he probably is the only guy that has ever filled me with rage. The memory of her crying because of him is so absurdly maddening, but I also promised her that I wouldn't hate him and I care for her more then I dislike him.
So I don't have problem with him so long as he doesn't cause any more tears.
but back to the original point, have you ever unintentionally got into someones head?
obviously the interrogative questions apply, who, where, what, when, why and how?
About a week later me, another male friend of mine(tim) and her ex are hanging out at a chik-fil-a, simply passing conversation and goofing off. From their we left, me and tim take off and she and her ex head off to spend some time together.
Me and her hang out a few days later, and she reveals that while at first her ex liked me, now he seems doesn't like me and he feels like I'm trying to get inside his head.
I had to laugh when she said that, it really was hilarious, I definitely wasn't intentionally trying to mess with him. Truthfully I don't have any real problem with the guy, I know he wants to get back together with her, but she doesn't want a relationship at the moment and I feel like him pushing it is only to his detriment and I'm more then willing to wait for her. To be fair their are nights were I've really felt like I might kill him, he probably is the only guy that has ever filled me with rage. The memory of her crying because of him is so absurdly maddening, but I also promised her that I wouldn't hate him and I care for her more then I dislike him.
So I don't have problem with him so long as he doesn't cause any more tears.
but back to the original point, have you ever unintentionally got into someones head?
obviously the interrogative questions apply, who, where, what, when, why and how?