so i was watching the video poasted about Geni (can't spell) and i was telling my INFJ mother about it. so we got on the the topic about abuse im the home, and i stupidly told her that that i hadn't forgivin her and my dad for hitting me when i was little. i know my mam is an amazing peorson and violence is totally out of character for her but she is really hurt.
i totaly take it back now and on reflection it's taught me never to hit kids, i will never hold it to her and i certinly don't hate her for it.
trouble is i find it really hard to forgive people which sucks seen as how im Christian!
also i said that the reasons they hit me wern't just (and they wern't)
ah i just wanna scream
help me
so the point is what can i say to make her (and myself) feel better. because i can see she's thinking about it. (and so am i)
i totaly take it back now and on reflection it's taught me never to hit kids, i will never hold it to her and i certinly don't hate her for it.
trouble is i find it really hard to forgive people which sucks seen as how im Christian!
also i said that the reasons they hit me wern't just (and they wern't)
ah i just wanna scream
help me
so the point is what can i say to make her (and myself) feel better. because i can see she's thinking about it. (and so am i)