ESTJ because of the job. Anything in management can make someone seem more TJ than they are.
ESTJ because of the job. Anything in management can make someone seem more TJ than they are.
Thanks for your input @Gaze (I hope you are well, by the way. Glad to see you're back.)
I'm wondering whether this ESTJ perception would only apply to people who've interacted with you superficially at the work place, or perhaps in the initial stages. Do you think there are some among your more long-term colleagues that may still perceive you as ESTJ?
I know that, from my own experience, I was able to detect my former boss's INFPness after a little while.
There was a time back when I was working in a club, and in the last months I worked there I felt I had to fill some void and took up the mantle as the most senior person at that post. The newbies didn't like my authorativeness, so I eventually became soft again. Bitches were slow where efficiency and speed was key. Slackers, had to pick up theirs. Until I quit. I really don't miss the place.f you show compassion, you can be seen as a pushover, if you're very authoritative, then you're seen as a dictator who is not nice. It's pretty subjective.
It's funny because I've been "mistyped" as both an extrovert and a "thinker" of sorts, though people irl aren't generally familiar with mbti so I'm speaking in general terms.
And then when people really get to know me they figure out I'm not really either of those things
I've also had people peg me as arrogant and scary and all sorts of weird things. I think it's just because I am sort of closed off to people at first.
I figured you were going to ban me.
:rainbowlove: I thought you seemed passive-aggressive when our avatars first met
Lol what! What did I even do? My humor doesn't translate well online sometimes. My apologies.
It was more about my tendency to besnappy.banned
There was a time back when I was working in a club, and in the last months I worked there I felt I had to fill some void and took up the mantle as the most senior person at that post. The newbies didn't like my authoritiveness, so I eventually became soft again. Bitches were slow where efficiency and speed was key. Slackers, had to pick up theirs. Until I quit. I really don't miss the place.
LOL, I was thinking that the only time I wondered whether you were making fun of me, you used this very emoji
I should check again though. Maybe this is all my imagination.
OUCH
I don't regret it.
You'll regret getting banned from here though!
You've been warned
I honestly don't recall ever making fun of you, unless it was something intended out of love/humor. If I make fun of anybody it's generally either because I have love for them or they're being stupid/ignorant and I'm attempting to show them they're stupid/ignorant... out of love/compassion.
I found it anyway
Oh I remember that! I was actually just super interested in your thoughts on my contrarian comment. Seeing as you're well versed in such things I thought it a humorous contemplation I seem to recall you giving a pretty satisfactory answer as well
Or maybe it's all just an Ni thing.