When girls go through a breakup and decide they "hate all boys they're all the same douches" it is such a generalization it hurts my head. You hate the type of attractive guys that dress like studs, don't respect you, have nothing in common with you and clearly don't do commitment, who happen to be the only types of guys you fall for. There are billions of other guys who have nothing in common with the men you've dated. And on the other hand, there are plenty of girls who have the same unattached stud personality. Compatibility is not a gender thing.