I've seen this discussed a little bit across the board, but I'd love to see this in one place!
Do you feel gender plays a small part in MBTI type? I'm not saying that gender necessary influences MBTI type - there are INTJ females, ENTJ females, ENFJ males, and so forth - but I've seen that the reactions people have within their types can vary to degrees, depending on gender (and this could be more environmental than anything else).
I'm not trying to be sexist, I'm really not (I'm more of a women's rights activist, too). But in the same way that things come naturally for some women and things come naturally for some men, I think reactions come naturally as well.
Here's my dillema.
I have no problems with most ISTJ females - I get along with them just fine. But many ISTJ males grate on my nerves like no one else, especially when they're heavy on the STJ. It feels like I'm talking to a brick wall, sometmes.
On the flip side, I have no problems talking and relating to ESFJ males. But many ESFJ females drive me bananas! I keep hearing the "poor me" thing in my head, whether it's actually there or not.
Now, I don't want this to turn into an attack of type. I really want to discuss it in a positive way, and believe me I'm not saying one type is better than another! I'm simply talking about my own personal experiences with types. And if I can learn to relate to types that I have difficulties with, I think I'll feel better.
Do you feel gender plays a small part in MBTI type? I'm not saying that gender necessary influences MBTI type - there are INTJ females, ENTJ females, ENFJ males, and so forth - but I've seen that the reactions people have within their types can vary to degrees, depending on gender (and this could be more environmental than anything else).
I'm not trying to be sexist, I'm really not (I'm more of a women's rights activist, too). But in the same way that things come naturally for some women and things come naturally for some men, I think reactions come naturally as well.
Here's my dillema.
I have no problems with most ISTJ females - I get along with them just fine. But many ISTJ males grate on my nerves like no one else, especially when they're heavy on the STJ. It feels like I'm talking to a brick wall, sometmes.
On the flip side, I have no problems talking and relating to ESFJ males. But many ESFJ females drive me bananas! I keep hearing the "poor me" thing in my head, whether it's actually there or not.
Now, I don't want this to turn into an attack of type. I really want to discuss it in a positive way, and believe me I'm not saying one type is better than another! I'm simply talking about my own personal experiences with types. And if I can learn to relate to types that I have difficulties with, I think I'll feel better.