hey np, its nice for me to know others can relate. you know this is why i think close friends are so important, beyond this forum it's not like people really talk about these situations, i mean its normally things like; hey you hear about them broncos? or the democrats are screwing us blind! or something like that lol. close friends actually talk about things that mutually matter, and theres a comfort in knowing someone else can not only relate, but understand where you're coming from, ya know. work friendships suck lol.
this is essentially what brought about my change too, was looking for something because i knew something was missing, if i had been better off with what came natural i probably would'nt have. actually enneagram was what encouraged me to push beyond what was the norm. it can really provide some answers if you look at it beyond a standard typology indicator.
yep couldn't agree more, i remind myself of this whenever i feel my stomach startin to tense up, you know whats great about it though is the more i do it the easier it gets, and bc the act in itself is a reward, i actually start looking for other ways to venture beyond what feels comfortable. do you think you've always been fairly seclusive or is this a more recent trend? for me, it didn't really start taking effect until late teens early twenties and i think its the only reason i was able to notice it.
