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This video (imbeded is at bottom) kind of sparked me to think to ask this. Why do people like twitter and facebook so much? (the video is about twitter, but it can very easily be applied to facebook as well).
For me, it allows me to be nosy (I'm a very nosy person). By nature, I want to know everything about everyone, really just for the sake of knowing. The thing is though, I am very secretive and discreet about it, so no one knows this. On facebook, I read everything someone posts and says (with the exception of silly apps and games). I also actually read most everything inside there profile, there about me, music, quotes, ect. I am also addicted to posting stuff. I keep my facebook rather active. I respond to peoples posts', status', ect. I update my status freqently. However, I do watch what I say as to not sound phony, egotistical, depressed, or attention-seeking. I also don't use twitter. This is because I see my facebook status as twitter, and don't see the need for twitter. Having twitter would make me anal retentive with updating facebook and twitter exactly the same at the same time. Despite the fact that I would love to post on my facebook status every little detail of everything that I am doing, much like the guy in the start of the video, I can't bring myself to do that. It seems extremely egotistical and shallow, and I don't want to be seen that way.
The reason I post so much is not really for attention. I just like the fact that someone is actually reading what I am saying, and is aware of what is going on with me. I assume that there are a handful of people on there that read what I say along with what everyone else says, and actually has an intelectualized thought about it (as I usually do when I read what someone else says)
Now, I would venture to guess that most people aren't like me where they are just nosy about people. It seems like most people that do post on facebook and twitter are just using it as a tool to vent and fill a small social-need hole that they might have at the moment. It is something to do. It seems like most people that use twitter and facebook alot either need more attention then they already get (even if that ammount is high to start with), or it is a way for people to be social and express themselves where they would otherwise be unconfortable.
In the video. I agree with both sides. Yes people have become attention-whores about very trivial things, but it is also new way to socialize and share information without having to jump through the hoops of social navigation. I do disagree though, that people on facebook and twitter lack friends. Somepeople might, but not everyone. I very much love facebook, and the idea of twitter.
So what are your thoughts and feelings on this? Do you use facebook and or twitter? If so how much, how do you use it, do you like it, ect.? What kind of thoughts and feelings does the video spark for you? Discuss.
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For me, it allows me to be nosy (I'm a very nosy person). By nature, I want to know everything about everyone, really just for the sake of knowing. The thing is though, I am very secretive and discreet about it, so no one knows this. On facebook, I read everything someone posts and says (with the exception of silly apps and games). I also actually read most everything inside there profile, there about me, music, quotes, ect. I am also addicted to posting stuff. I keep my facebook rather active. I respond to peoples posts', status', ect. I update my status freqently. However, I do watch what I say as to not sound phony, egotistical, depressed, or attention-seeking. I also don't use twitter. This is because I see my facebook status as twitter, and don't see the need for twitter. Having twitter would make me anal retentive with updating facebook and twitter exactly the same at the same time. Despite the fact that I would love to post on my facebook status every little detail of everything that I am doing, much like the guy in the start of the video, I can't bring myself to do that. It seems extremely egotistical and shallow, and I don't want to be seen that way.
The reason I post so much is not really for attention. I just like the fact that someone is actually reading what I am saying, and is aware of what is going on with me. I assume that there are a handful of people on there that read what I say along with what everyone else says, and actually has an intelectualized thought about it (as I usually do when I read what someone else says)
Now, I would venture to guess that most people aren't like me where they are just nosy about people. It seems like most people that do post on facebook and twitter are just using it as a tool to vent and fill a small social-need hole that they might have at the moment. It is something to do. It seems like most people that use twitter and facebook alot either need more attention then they already get (even if that ammount is high to start with), or it is a way for people to be social and express themselves where they would otherwise be unconfortable.
In the video. I agree with both sides. Yes people have become attention-whores about very trivial things, but it is also new way to socialize and share information without having to jump through the hoops of social navigation. I do disagree though, that people on facebook and twitter lack friends. Somepeople might, but not everyone. I very much love facebook, and the idea of twitter.
So what are your thoughts and feelings on this? Do you use facebook and or twitter? If so how much, how do you use it, do you like it, ect.? What kind of thoughts and feelings does the video spark for you? Discuss.
[YOUTUBE]PN2HAroA12w[/YOUTUBE]
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