Shaz- said:
OOH i bet! I dont think my brother is a N at all I can hardly relate to him which stinks cuz hes my only brother but I know he is F somehow...so possibly ESF??? WHo knows I could ask him to take the test but i dont think he would...
Do INFJ's somehow appear to be cold?
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OOH i bet! I dont think my brother is a N at all I can hardly relate to him which stinks cuz hes my only brother but I know he is F somehow...so possibly ESF??? WHo knows I could ask him to take the test but i dont think he would...
Lurker said:
yes, i have found myself plenty of times doing this... and i'll notice it and try to make it go away... but it doesn't go... but then i'm still stuck in internal dialog mode so i just don't think about it anymore and just continue going through the labyrinth of my own psyche... i really DO get lost up there though... :shock:
To others I appear to be that crazy scientist who runs around constantly coming up with ideas and forgetting to interact. I do have little tact sometimes because I will blurt out somethings without thinking. I do ensure to constantly compliment others and always keep a smile on. As long as I see others smile it becomes easy. People observe me as always attempting to say something profound, or a little crazy because they can't figure out what I am rambling on about. I attempt not to show any of my emotions. I cry alone when I do cry. To my family, I show my anger which they don't like, I wish it was easier for me to show them my inner emotions. We are cold when it comes to our emotions, but we are warm and comforting for all those who show theirs.
this is so me I totally could have wrote this! I try to say something profound that in my head makes PERFECT sense...but to everyone else in the room its just rambling...then i catch myself speaking garbled words and realize....oh yea there is nonsense coming out of my mouth right now YIKES!SoraKage said:
Motor Jax said:
As usual the ESTP is completely opposite ... I'm like the village idiot, more often than not I'm smiling. Seriously I get that a lot: 'Why are you always smiling?" or "What's so funny?" Part of it is also that I tend to hum while I'm doing stuff - the smurfs theme song is my favorite
my mum does that Coke, still trying to work out her type (she can't tell herself she's so goddam complex) always makes me wonder what's going on in her head, it's like there's a joke that noone else knows about.
Lurker said:
lol! I do that too. I conjecture I must have thought of something, and that "something" might have made me frown! But, the thing is, while I know I am thinking of/reflecting on something 24/7, sometimes I don't know what I am thinking about.
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Shai Gar
I read that as "My Mum Does Coke"Lurker said:
I was once called an 'antisocial bitch' when I was 17, and more recently, 'unstable' and 'overemotional,' by two apparently emotionally disturbed people, but aside from that, the only thing I've been called by anyone is 'intimidating,' an insight which is never offered to me freely. From what I hear from my friends, I come off as a stable, but hardened woman, with a much warmer side than cold.
I can understand coming off as cold, though. Hell, being an INFJ, I can see the usefulness of such a ruse; without some sort of cold outer shell, it seems to me we're a sort of personality that can easily be taken advantage of. And I have, of course. But for some reason, I have a really hard time keeping up a cold shell. Any tips on how to manage it?
I can understand coming off as cold, though. Hell, being an INFJ, I can see the usefulness of such a ruse; without some sort of cold outer shell, it seems to me we're a sort of personality that can easily be taken advantage of. And I have, of course. But for some reason, I have a really hard time keeping up a cold shell. Any tips on how to manage it?
In my early years, up until my mid twenties I lived my life being wide open. I thought it was good to live this way in order to be available at all times. The highs were extremely high but the lows were extremely low. It wasn't until I turned 30 that I learned I could, and should, put walls and guards in place to protect myself as the hurts were starting to build up. Unfortunately I went too far and my heart hardened. I ended up feeling very little It has been an inner battle to find a good balance ever since.