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  1. Satya

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    I don't particularly, but I've been told that is because I probably haven't done it right. I do, however, absolutely love talking about it.
     
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    Is there a rational reason for that?
     
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    I've never been one for soul bonding during sex. I don't think I've ever 'made love,' for me it's the feelings, release, pleasure aspects of it. I'm up and down with it too - like it, love it, can't get enough or bored, never think of it.
     
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    I have no idea. I think I'm a voyeur at heart. Is that rational?

    I think that is why I don't like it. I'm looking for something more than the physical component.
     
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    oh, love it

    bit of a solo exhibitionist in my apt (only too much)

    love the bonding of it though, along with the physical
     
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    Does love overlap with sexual pleasure for an INFJ? (or is this an individual trait?)
     
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    MOOOOAAA-er, I mean I'm quite intrested to see where this thread goes.

    That is all.
     
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    That is what the sex I have had has been missing. It doesn't form into a close, personal relationship. Without that, it isn't much different than masturbation.
     
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    I'm sorry, I'm still laughing (spitting all over self while at work . . . )
     
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    I don't mean to offend Satya . . . I'm just at work right now, got through with patient care, and that was the first post I'd read here in awhile. Seriously bust up laughing . . . anyone who didn't already think I was weird now officially does . . .
     
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    I'm always happy to bring laughter into people's day. And I know that if I couldn't laugh at myself then I would probably go insane.
     
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    I've had many good natured laughs on here too, it's great.

    In a way though I guess we spend our whole lives trying to 'do it right'. LOL Will we ever *make love* one day and all spiritual and physical energies collide and ooooOOOOOO YEEHAW UTOPIA! "I did it right!"
    Nah
     
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    Although, I do give a killer back massage . . . people always fall asleep. And if you pop in a movie I love, I'll massage the duration of the movie . . . it's my BFF's way of manipulating back rubs out of me LOL!! But I don't mind. I can't seem to watch movies without doing something with my hands . . .
     
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    Seeing this thread and talking about sex didn't get me excited but mention a back massage .......... YES!
     
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    Oh yeah! Head, back, legs . . . Eucalyptus oil . . . candles that smell like food . . . (arg, now I'm hungry again)
     
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    Female INFJs are weird. ;)
     
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    My speciality is the scalp massage, it also includes the neck and shoulders.
    Very relaxing :)
     
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    I'm good with shoulders, and that little spot on the bottom of your neck and the beginning of your back.
     
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    Traitors!

    :?

    Cough...I like cuddling...a lot. :oops:
     
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    Aww . . . Satya's just a little old cuddly wuddly bear . . . (yes, I am perfectly aware of my weirdness . . )
     
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