2. The way you talk about women they almost seems like objects which leads me to think that maybe you're not as nice as you think you are.
i am so effing sick and tired of hearing that crap from clueless people making snap judgements. i'm only going to say this ONCE. i have NEVER been abusive to ANY woman other than to TRY and send home the message i want absolutely nothing to do with them when you try and get away, and they cling to you. yes, THEN i'll tell a woman to her face i hate her guts, and even then it doesn't work and she just clings harder.
even the crazy b#### that tried killing me in my sleep didn't get so much as an insult, but came really close to fighting for her useless life trying to block my exit from her apartment when i had enough of HER crap.
now? you bet your butt i'm disgusted with not just women, but the entire social climbing, planet destroying human species that rewards scum and punishes the righteous. not me! i do the exact opposite of that crap, within reason. having some crazed ENFP recently turn fatal on me too even though i told her don't even think about it from the git go decide to stage an OD suicide because you refuse to have sex with her, THE SECOND you try and climb out of 11 effing years of utter disgust for murderous, scum loving females only deepens my contempt for their scum breeding tendencies that ARE behind my effing beloved planet dying.
i've ALWAYS treated women with the utmost respect, so back the eff up with your pithy condescension! all it's ever gotten me is
"you're a NICE guy, but..." dozens of times or fatal attractions from women i absolutely don't want to be with at all, but it's better than nothing.
just because i don't hold back on what i'm thinking here doesn't mean this is how i court women. you need to work on YOUR condescension skills maybe, because you're sure as eff offending ME!
i'm "so much the ahole" that even after she ripped my heart out of my chest and stomped on it so that she could marry SCUM that beat her and cheated on her 2 months into her marriage, something i would NEVER DO, i still came running to the b#### (and yeah... i'll call her nowadays S&M pornstar butt that, because she is what she is!!!!) across the entire country, quitting my job, terminating my lease, and driving cross country so the ho could rip my heart out a second time.
i've given and given and gotten nothing back EVER except fugly, desperate clingy women no one else wants turning fatal attraction on me because i treat EVEN THEM good, until they push too hard, i can't take it anymore, and they refuse to let me go and i decide THEN is the time to stop being nice.
sorry, i've been way nicer to women than they've EVER been to me.
until you can show me a SINGLE EFFING EXCEPTION TO THE RULE, get off my back already until you've walked 47 years in my "you're a nice guy, but..." shoes and had at least one crazy b#### try to kill you in your sleep. until then, stuff a sock in it already and keep your condescending snippy remarks to yourself.
i see there's no mute button here either. do me a favor, don't talk to me. you have nothing to say i remotely want to hear. i've decided already i do not like you. me? i'm totally up front about that. i don't pretend to get what i want. even if i AM lowering my standards WAY MORE than i should be (i'm not an unattractive guy or obese BTW. nit that it matters as ahole is the gold standard always) i don't lie to my partners. i tell them to keep their options open and encourage them to find happiness.
NOW RIGHT EFFING NOW? you bet, i've had it! i've been at trying to get a date over a year at a dozen sites and gotten little more than one desperate clingy argumentitive woman in mexico try to get me to move there (i still say she was up to SOMETHING) and another gal ask me if i was even human. yes, i've effing had it! EVERY woman that actually does want to be with me is a lost cause well beneath my standards and i'm not compromising ever again, hence telling fatal attraction #2 "don't even think about it" which of course, she ignored because as much as women are repulsed by honesty and niceness, they drip for misogyny and rejection. this is a fact. an unbearably annoying fact.
if your theory that i'm an abuser were correct, then i should literally have to be fending women off with a stick because they like that. take, for example, the annoying cashier at the grocery store i worked at long ago that would not leave me alone no matter how many times i asked if she didn't have anything better to do, and it only turned her on, like the nympho that came looking for me that was into being raped *blech* or the one date i had who said she hated being called dear and all that NICE STUFF and would rather be called b#### as her favorite movie was 9 1/2 weeks, or was it blue velvet? nope, never abused them losers. as always... treat 'em nice and watch 'em run, or in the case of the nympho, wear see through teddies in front of their brother who tells you they were "dirty dancing" before you got there.
EFF ALL OF THAT NOISE! i've had it! i want some nice nice or eff off.
sadly "the best" relationship i EVER had was with a female room mate that i knew had the hots for me i just kept brushing off as she always wanted to turn me to sadism as she was a devout masochist and, rather than compromise my effing integrity for a piece of tail when i wasn't getting any or hate myself, i just refused.
so where's your brilliant theory now einstein. i refused to abuse someone even when they begged me!
you know, i would STILL be nice to a woman if a decent one showed interest, though i'm not letting my guard down anymore or lowering my standards again. there's one good thing about having a crazy b#### try to kill you for refusing to service her, it teaches you women aren't necessary and that the peace and quiet of living alone can be refreshing. it might not get you love, but i've never had that anyways,. just fatal attractions and rejection. THAT'S IT!
i'm entitled to my righteous outrage at being rejected for being a nice guy and i am. now? no, yet another instigator is trying to trigger my "i'll fight all of you" response over lies when i'm in the right and the facts SUCK.
women hate nice guys. 99.99% of them. OK, sure after they make a bastard child with scum who leaves them, THEN they want the nice guy they otherwise wouldn't give it up to around as a parental slave or if they're so fugly no guy wants them, but if they know they have options, they ain't giving it up for a nice guy ever except for sympathy which also disgusts me.
hate me all you want for telling the truths no one else will because challenging the sugar and spice MYTH is forbidden. like i care about stupid social rules!
you can hate me because i don't sugar coat anything, but i speak truth and i'll call you a liar, or at least deluded to your face if you want to start up with me.
47 years of being nice has only gotten me fatal attraction misery or rejection misery. call me a liar like you just did to my face! i can be very not nice when provoked. only aholes bring that out in me though. the nicer someone is to me, the nicer i am to them in return. that too is a fact. i'm the one that's nice to ALL of the square pegs everyone else walks all over. stupid scum breeding women see that as a sign of weakness, but they're just being stupid and shallow as most of the guys that act tough around women are really snivelling cowards. i just sent three such putzes that tried ganging up on me packing with their tails tucked between their legs, then i'm sure all 3 p###ies went home ang got laid by stupid women that think they're macho when they're just fake a## p###ies that are only tough if they think they have the upper hand.
don't ever accuse me of abusing a woman unless you want to be abused yourself. i have no problem giving the stare to an entire roomful of instigators, and i've faced down half a dozen as well as a dozen instigators before. if i say i am nice. IT IS A FACT!
you bet i've had it now after having someone who doesn't even have the right turn fatal attraction on me for being nice, try and trick me into sex with a suicide threat and "misogynist that i am" try to lie down with her to comfort her, no matter how much doing so disgusted me to my marrow manipulative ENFP socio that SHE is, only to have her too get mad at me for STILL refusing to perform for her and even after THAT b#### burned me in the neck with a cigarette with a
"see? that's what you get" (for not having sex with me) i did not cold knock her out like i should have. i merely walked away with a whatever and want nothing to do with her again.
never been mean or abusive to anyone that wasn't asking for it. don't say it again. try and cling to me when i'm saying no, yeah... i'll tell a gal about herself and my true feelings then, but until then, i'll treat her better than probably any guy in her life ever has even if my heart isn't in it.
as to my alleged misogyny getting in the way of relationships, doesn't happen. i'm not a flirt and never got anywhere the 3-4 times i've tried seducing women.
you show me a left wing hippy leaning woman of no worse than average looks (i actually really go for big noses and glasses where others say homely like mayim bialik & "ugly betty") who wants nothing to do with a bad boy ever and that is attracted to me, and i'll show the happiest most adored woman in the world as i do put women on pedestals. i know i shouldn't do that because it only makes them kick you in the head, but that's my MO when i'm in love. as i'm not seeing much in the way of exceptions to the rule YET (i still have some optimism regarding IN_Js) love isn't even an option. if anything, i'll just revert back to revulsion mode when even attractive women hit on me.
these are all of the facts missing from your completely wrong assessment. if you're nice, women mistake you for soft. if you're soft and fugly and talk really big with nothing to actually back it up, that's all it takes to impress stupid women.
there... there's a perfect example, i went to school with this weasel of a coward (started a fight with me and nut kicked me once) that was stupid, short, pudgy and chinless and when we went out with three gals, they ALL ignored me and hung on his every contempt filled condescending to everyone, including women word. his ONLY skill i couldn't match was being an ahole.
you KNOW that's how it is in the real world. oh, wait, this isn't the real world. y'all ignore logic & facts up in here, forgot where i am after 3 gals built a cauldron for me over the same thing at INTJ and put me on the defensive. if i'm on the defensive, i like to flip it and go for it.