do INFJ women hate bad boys?
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This is true, I've dated men that are in their 40's and never married and they had problems; in fact I won't do it anymore. They always told me that they "took marriage seriously" and that's why they were never married but they all turned out to be emotionally immature train wrecks. Lol.
yes, "i'm the problem" i'm an INTJ who believes in saying what you mean, meaning what you say, and i don't exude the stupid butt "air of confidence" women crave, but i'd sure as eff love to fight it to the death and see who the REAL man is.
now if only i could find a WOMAN who has a similar "eff all of you stupid primates and your petty stupid destructive games!" outlook, we could go on with our lives and not have to be bothered by the likes of you ever again.
oh this lack of a mute button thing is insufferable! mute buttons are the only saving grace of the internet. too bad you can't mute people in the real world. well... you can, but...
heck to the mothereffin' no on the kansas thing. that whole uppity redneck midwest can osculate my sphincter. i like where i am just fine.
ACTUALLY the women here are very nice and friendly and rarely stuck up. it's kind of funny as i'm kind of "the bad boy" where i am in a town full of thug poseurs that wouldn't last 15 minutes in a real hood, on their own, after dark, but i just keep that part of my personality to myself. i got the eff out of the hood because of what it was doing to me.
now if only i could find a WOMAN who has a similar "eff all of you stupid primates and your petty stupid destructive games!" outlook, we could go on with our lives and not have to be bothered by the likes of you ever again.
oh this lack of a mute button thing is insufferable! mute buttons are the only saving grace of the internet. too bad you can't mute people in the real world. well... you can, but...
heck to the mothereffin' no on the kansas thing. that whole uppity redneck midwest can osculate my sphincter. i like where i am just fine.
ACTUALLY the women here are very nice and friendly and rarely stuck up. it's kind of funny as i'm kind of "the bad boy" where i am in a town full of thug poseurs that wouldn't last 15 minutes in a real hood, on their own, after dark, but i just keep that part of my personality to myself. i got the eff out of the hood because of what it was doing to me.
Wow you went to an ani defranco concert and couldn't figure out where all the guys were? Ergo they were all lesbians... Really? You actually believe this? Your way or the highway, and you spent 10 years celibate? You're not putting any of these dots together? Bueller....Bueller...
You want to know what you sound like to me? A bitter angry self absorbed beta male. Who needs to use phrases like bad boy and nice guy to make your lack of iniutive more palatable. You really should stop blaming everyone else for your own short comings and fix yourself before you suggest everyone else has the problem. Either your standards are unrealistic or you are lying about yourself. If you come off in person like you do on here then no wonder. But my guess is that in person you don't socialize well and you don't make moves, and the guys that do are automatically "bad boys" I'm actually amazed to see someone who claims to be in his 40s saying these things... This mentality is pure middle school.
There is a mute button, but I wont tell you where it is because of your attitude. Think of it as a practical joke.
How can you be an intj and dismiss external verification of ideas? You don't need a mute button, you need to get a grip and listen the people around you because the shit you got banging around inside of your head is seriously self destructive.
yes. my standards ARE unrealistic. i dream of the kind of gal that loves animals and hunts bad boys. LOL
no, i DIDN'T go to an ani concert. if you spent as much time reading and gathering facts SUBGENIUS, you'd see i said OUTSIDE A CONCERT, but all you want to to is attempt to assert yourself over me. try it to my face some day, and we'll see who's the alpha and who's trying to put themself back together.
i CHOSE not to be alpha, and i'll challenge an alpha WITH BUTT BUDDIES on my own without backup, just like i did 3 pooties half my age that all had the extra arm i don't a couple weeks ago. try and alpha on me and we'll fight to the death. i've faced bigger and badder than you toy.
man eff you INFJs! you're part of the problem! come on.. keep piling on effers. mo joke, i'll fight you all! i'll lose, but i'll get mine before that happens
no, i DIDN'T go to an ani concert. if you spent as much time reading and gathering facts SUBGENIUS, you'd see i said OUTSIDE A CONCERT, but all you want to to is attempt to assert yourself over me. try it to my face some day, and we'll see who's the alpha and who's trying to put themself back together.
i CHOSE not to be alpha, and i'll challenge an alpha WITH BUTT BUDDIES on my own without backup, just like i did 3 pooties half my age that all had the extra arm i don't a couple weeks ago. try and alpha on me and we'll fight to the death. i've faced bigger and badder than you toy.
man eff you INFJs! you're part of the problem! come on.. keep piling on effers. mo joke, i'll fight you all! i'll lose, but i'll get mine before that happens
you sound a lot like my cousin Steve when you talk. It's scary almost. Steve has schizophrenia. He is committed. There is obviously something about yourself you haven't disclosed yet, what is it specifically?
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now i know what everyone was saying about INFJ arguments. only been here 1 day, and already my bluntness is rocking your rose colored little world and making you pick and chose words to use against me without bothering to take in the big picture or the reasoning.
if this is what INFJs are, yeah... trying to start romance with one is a no no. only INTJs are rational then. well ISFJs can be too, but they're too married to authority structures and INTPs are even more uptight and ENTJs will only bring a bunch more annoying irrational people ruled by their stupid little instincts at least INTJs can overlook.
that INFJ description needs to be updated to "loves to nitpick and insult people PERSONALLY because of their world views and can't tolerate anyone disagreeing with them"
i personally don't care what you think, if you aren't in my small circle of people that can prove trustworthy, you are nothing to me except buzzing insects instigators. you defend your status quo as will i. your "words of pursuasion" have no effect on me. i have facts & statistics on my side. you can't pursuade a stat to change it's mind any more you can mine. all you can do is pick pick pick with the same stupid emotions MOST others share that are the root of every problem in the world. i want to exact opposite of that.
schizophrenia? OK, now you all are REALLY being ridiculous. i don't hear voices in my head telling me what to do. that'salmost as lame as fidiots trying to accuse INTJs (that's what i am if you're not bothering to look) of being "sociopaths" because we're unemotional (well, i am, the more a holes ganging up on me, the more i want to see their necks going *crunch*) when they don't even know what the word effing means. i also know the difference between right and wrong and DELIBERATELY only want people that want to fight evil around me. bad boy groupies give it up for the dark one.
if i didn't have issues with biblical contradictions, i think i might be best matched with a church going gal, but i'm not big on hipocracy... there's that "ruled by ethics" thing again. i want nothing to do with anyone who isn't willing to go against the flow. good little conformists are ALMOST as annoying as wannabe tyrants.
i tell you, INFJs know nada about EARNING respect. now i'm going to start talking about YOU all personally as you're incapable of separating facts from feelings and everything is personal to you.
man, i never would have imagined in a million years that INFJs are even more annoying than ENFP fatal attractions. at least the latter WANTS to be friends. you all seem bent on being enemies. chose that path, OK, i know that song and dance by heart. i don't play it the same way you do, but if i set my INTJ mind to it. i know i can say things that hurt people's feelings. you aren't hurting my feelings, just earning my contempt.
apologies to anyone here NOT instigating. i shouldn't generalize about INFJs but as y'all like to gang up, consider it guilt by association. "must purge outsiders... immediately"
it'sall good, come to the INTJ forum some time. EVERYONE gets to say what's on their mind and get treated with respect there. even the aspergers keep it real for the most part.
INFJs... y'all are some mob mentality mofos.
if this is what INFJs are, yeah... trying to start romance with one is a no no. only INTJs are rational then. well ISFJs can be too, but they're too married to authority structures and INTPs are even more uptight and ENTJs will only bring a bunch more annoying irrational people ruled by their stupid little instincts at least INTJs can overlook.
that INFJ description needs to be updated to "loves to nitpick and insult people PERSONALLY because of their world views and can't tolerate anyone disagreeing with them"
i personally don't care what you think, if you aren't in my small circle of people that can prove trustworthy, you are nothing to me except buzzing insects instigators. you defend your status quo as will i. your "words of pursuasion" have no effect on me. i have facts & statistics on my side. you can't pursuade a stat to change it's mind any more you can mine. all you can do is pick pick pick with the same stupid emotions MOST others share that are the root of every problem in the world. i want to exact opposite of that.
schizophrenia? OK, now you all are REALLY being ridiculous. i don't hear voices in my head telling me what to do. that'salmost as lame as fidiots trying to accuse INTJs (that's what i am if you're not bothering to look) of being "sociopaths" because we're unemotional (well, i am, the more a holes ganging up on me, the more i want to see their necks going *crunch*) when they don't even know what the word effing means. i also know the difference between right and wrong and DELIBERATELY only want people that want to fight evil around me. bad boy groupies give it up for the dark one.
if i didn't have issues with biblical contradictions, i think i might be best matched with a church going gal, but i'm not big on hipocracy... there's that "ruled by ethics" thing again. i want nothing to do with anyone who isn't willing to go against the flow. good little conformists are ALMOST as annoying as wannabe tyrants.
i tell you, INFJs know nada about EARNING respect. now i'm going to start talking about YOU all personally as you're incapable of separating facts from feelings and everything is personal to you.
man, i never would have imagined in a million years that INFJs are even more annoying than ENFP fatal attractions. at least the latter WANTS to be friends. you all seem bent on being enemies. chose that path, OK, i know that song and dance by heart. i don't play it the same way you do, but if i set my INTJ mind to it. i know i can say things that hurt people's feelings. you aren't hurting my feelings, just earning my contempt.
apologies to anyone here NOT instigating. i shouldn't generalize about INFJs but as y'all like to gang up, consider it guilt by association. "must purge outsiders... immediately"
it'sall good, come to the INTJ forum some time. EVERYONE gets to say what's on their mind and get treated with respect there. even the aspergers keep it real for the most part.
INFJs... y'all are some mob mentality mofos.
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I believe you need to realize other's have emotion too. Learn to understand that emotion, and balance it with your love life. I don't think anyone was nitpicking, don't ask for advice if you don't want it. Did you want reassurance in your generalized beliefs about women? If you want it then analyze and improve yourself. Logic and Emotion generate great rationalization. Don't depend on your paradigm as much.
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Okay, baby. I'll tell you want you want to hear. I'm swooning. Pick me, please! I want to breed with you.
Can I call you daddy? How about big daddy!
Liar. Then why are you here? Why would anyone want to be in your small elitist circle? Youve been acting like a jerk the whole time youve been here.
This is probably a little off the wall, but from his POV its probably applicable.
When are you going to start earning some respect? If you come into someones house crying about how everyone is an asshole then you are doing it wrong.
No thanks, not interested. You should really reconsider that you are probably the problem.
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