hi! this is my first post here so i hope it goes well. i think my long term boyfriend is a infj and i'm having some issues with our relationship. i just wanted to hear opinions from other infj's so i can understand him better and to decide what to do.
here it is. he is talking TOO often about his exes. not one in particulary but about all of them. he's ruining almost every romantic moment we have with stories about them. it hurts me because he talks about them with such a deep feeling and he's somewhat putting them on a pedestal. meanwhile he says and shows he loves me so much and has never felt like this being with me before.
please can somebody explain why is he doing it? we talked about it and i asked him not to. since he knows it bothers me and i don't talk about my exes, WHY he still goes on and on about them? everything else in our relationship is great so should i consider a breakup over this? i'm really confused.
here it is. he is talking TOO often about his exes. not one in particulary but about all of them. he's ruining almost every romantic moment we have with stories about them. it hurts me because he talks about them with such a deep feeling and he's somewhat putting them on a pedestal. meanwhile he says and shows he loves me so much and has never felt like this being with me before.
please can somebody explain why is he doing it? we talked about it and i asked him not to. since he knows it bothers me and i don't talk about my exes, WHY he still goes on and on about them? everything else in our relationship is great so should i consider a breakup over this? i'm really confused.
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