I have found my head to be more reliable than my heart. The two are constantly at war, because my head serves to protect me, but my heart will always go back for love no matter how toxic or out-dated. But to be at peace, I have to separately acknowledge the different voices and make a decision based on both. When my heart wants to rush into something, I ask myself "is this rational and logical? will this give me long term happiness? did this person/ situation treat me right the first time around? Do I feel safe with this person/ situation? Which will I regret more in the future- action or in-action?" I make two columns and write the pro's and con's down of both heart and head. This gives me a full perspective, not just heart or head. Then there is the question "if I have to divide my heart and head over this decision, is it meant to be? can I live consistently ignoring the other voice?"