Dear INFJs: Where do you hang out, outside of your home?

the coast. .
shurch. . .
coffe shops. . .
 
homes of friends, family friends and relatives
if i go out with friends we go to the movies, a coffee shop, the library, the mall (usually to help them shop)
i enjoy organized outdoor activities as well, like a group camping trip or a group horse back riding trip, i do these probably twice a year
lastly i do go to my place of worship, though i suppose i go for worship and not to hang out per se, but i make a lot of my friends from there, so i suppose it is hanging out too
 
Quiet, out of the way places. Preferably with rolling water nearby, I like to watch it breathe.
Not too keen on houses, as I dislike social customs being forced on myself or others unnecessarily.
Although, considering my friends are all NF's - and an INTJ - customs aren't generally enforced and their homes are like second nests for us to play in. Quite creative and artsy places, all in all ^.^
Bookstores are wonderful, especially Barnes & Noble. Friends and I can go batshit crazy and it's completely acceptable!
Jazzy places. Very easy to lose myself in the smooth rhyme and river of jazz.
 
I hang out here:

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(the artwork being by kimag3500 of dA)
 
Casinos! Because sometimes you just have to say "f*ck it!"
 
At the movies
Any classical concert I can afford
A resturaunt, not like Chillies, but I love little sushi places, and mom and pop shops
I go to the gym late at night when no one is there, then i can get the whole pool to my self and I am not bombarded with all the noise
 
When I lived in South Korea - mountain climbing. strolls, coffee shops, hofs, finding restaurants that were out of the way - but had extremely good food. ride my bike along the river. art galleries, live music performances, karaoke (you have your own room with couches, a table, drinks, a big screen, etc. as compared to here where you have to sing in front of a crowd... i haven't found a korean styled karaoke place yet).
Where I'm at now - I'll go for a stroll at night, hang out in my backyard and thats about it lately. Missed out on horseback riding when I got sick. I'd like to find some good restaurants here, a decent spot to read, a good walking trail, etc. Movies are good as well.
 
I am such a hermit at times, but when I do venture out, I like to go to a nice jazz club/bar, some place with soothing music and a calm atmosphere. Sadly the only jazz club I have found is located 20 minutes away. Luckily there is a nice bookstore down the road. Everyone in the adjoining cafe knows me, its hilarious. They start readying my coffee as soon as I walk in.
I try to visit the racetrack a couple of times a year. I like going in the mornings, when the sun hasn't quite come up yet. The horses and the riders gliding along the rail, and the only thing penetrating the silence is their breathing and hooves hitting the loamy soil. Sheer bliss.

-Anna
 
I hang out at places where they have books... I go to Barnes and Noble a lot, mostly to do homework. Other than that, you might find me at school. I don't really "hang out" anywhere. Maybe the park once in a while. Finding INFJs will be quite a task, although I think I may have just met one today. I thought I saw it in her eyes.
 
In alley ways downtown to hide from the traffic and throngs of people.
 
High places like hills. Easiest way to feel removed in a city.
 
Bedroom making things or anywhere that's not for idiots e.g. Galleries, boutiques, libraries, film theatres (not cinema in the traditional sense), coffee shops, bookshops in general, musical instrument shops and friends houses.
 
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