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being introvert conversation yes or no

hippie

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is letting someone know you are an introvert ,a good thing or bad, much less an INFJ. in the dating game ?
or should i even be pondering the ideal ?
 
Another introvert will likely appreciate the fact that you even know the definition of the word introvert.

Apart from that my suggestion is to be who you are and honor where you're at on life's journey. If these things are important to you and an important part of your identity then honor that.
 
is letting someone know you are an introvert ,a good thing or bad, much less an INFJ. in the dating game ?
or should i even be pondering the ideal ?

I'd let potential dates know you're an introvert. It will filter out people who aren't a good match for you.

Unfortunately, I'd leave out the INFJ part because the popularity of the "INFJ" as "rare" has made the word a red flag for self-absorbed people who believe they are "special" but probably aren't.