Thanks RM. I feel like a bit of a twat now because an hour after I posted that thread something magical happened- the girl messaged me on facebook and we stayed up till 5 am chatting. This has been the weirdest two months...
I witnessed the warfare on the pictures thread. You look great, RM! Don't take it to heart what they said. I agree, it was tactless and insensitive the way they put it but I don't think they meant harm.