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Recent content by Kero

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    Do you want more from friendship than people can actually give?

    Have you ever held back and thought to yourself? "I'd really really like to hang out more and do more things together. But it doesn't seem very appropriate to be so close and demand so much time from the other person." You want to go deeper but then realise that perhaps your idea of 'a close...
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    You picked the most convenient choice for a relationship? Accccck!

    I don't really trust my feelings. :( Yes. I doubt myself too much. Earlier on I was worrying about whether my low self-esteem meant that I just liked her because of the attention she gave me, and it took me a while to work out that it wouldn't be... There's too much mind doubt... Too little...
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    You picked the most convenient choice for a relationship? Accccck!

    I wouldn't say so. There's nothing deep formed beyond good friendship at the moment, but we don't talk that often. If it's so easy for me to remove the idea of a potential relationship with Sarah and be happy with friendship. Then I'd think... I'm not that into her. It's not a big loss. Guess...
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    You picked the most convenient choice for a relationship? Accccck!

    I get on well with two girls. One I don't know so well but have known for a while (Anne), the other I'm better friends with (Sarah). As friends, I like spending time with them naturally. I was intrested in getting to become better friends with both of them, and they have proven to be good...
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    Not capable of falling in love - Difference between romantic/strong friendship? (Part 2)

    For a long time I believed that I was not capable of connecting with people on a deep level, despite wanting so much to connect with other people. Some say it’s because I keep on believing that I’m different to people, others say it’s because I have unrealistic standards for forming an emotional...
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    Not capable of falling in love... (Long read)

    Don't worry about it too much. ^-^; I didn't take any offence and didn't intend on my message coming across harshly. It was just me honestly trying to understand my own feelings and the different varieties of love that exists. It's kind of confusing.
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    Not capable of falling in love... (Long read)

    Oh. I do experience love for this INFJ. It's just that it doesn't seem like the sort of love that you describe in your post. I get the feeling the longer I know this ESFP, the more I'll probably grow attached to her and love her, but while it might not be purely platonic love, it seems like it...
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    Not capable of falling in love... (Long read)

    I've been reflecting a little on my past relationships, and I'm afraid that there might be a trend in how I felt towards my old friend and my new friend who has expressed interest in me. To elaborate... There was a girl (INFJ) that I had interacted online for almost 5 years. Within the first...
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    Getting to know someone slowly before falling for them?

    I've noticed that alot of relationships seem to have a high intensity feeling to them that start it all off. I'm just wondering if it's unusual for people to be in the position where, while they may like a person, they don't feel the instant rush of desire to be around them. I know this is...
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    Can you really fall for someone you don't know that well?

    One thing that I've noticed is that there seems to be many who feel extremely drawn to others despite not knowing the other person that well. They confess to the other person, and hope that they like them back and then move forward into a relationship of getting to know each other better. Bottom...
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    Do you evaluate 'romantic potential' when meeting another person?

    Hey all, This is my first post here and I have a problem that I hope others here can give me a little helping hand on. This is mostly because I'm a total newbie in the area of romance, despite reading up so much on the topic. ^^' Anyhow... with further ado. Anybody willing to share some...