Why do some people use your name more often when they speak, when they are angry at you? As it is said in the book "How to Win Friends and Influence People" a person's own name is the sweetest sound in any language. If we always hear our name in association with something we did wrong, or something that someone is upset at us about then we will have negative feelings associated with hearing our name. I think that a person's name should be used in warmth, not in anger. What do you think?