In a prospective partner. I have a very detailed spec for men: - taller than me but not huge - dark haired - closely-trimmed beard or 5 O'clock shadow - 26 - 30 (in age...exceptions are made...) - v.slim (not necessarily toned) - broad shoulders - V.Intelligient - artistic - absurd sense of humour - tactful over truthful - No vanity! (in fact ignorance when it comes to appearance is good...) - comfortable, relaxed and not shy. - responsible Although it seems I don't fancy half the guys that are deemed "attractive" so methinks tis very "eye of the beholder". Interested in what everyone else looks for (or what you can't stand!).