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What are your good qualities?

I am able to channel some of my negative qualities into an inner strength to be used when necessary.
I can use my "cold" state to let darker souls confide in me as they might need to lash out (to vent in a hurtful way) and the cold state is then protective to me , also it is a challenge for them to break through the cold state and when they feel I am deserving of their confiding I can then use my INFJ qualities to help them.
I have forced myself to be open to criticism, I am very proud of that.
I am resilient, independent, strong willed, self-aware and do not believe in interacting in a negative way. These are all qualities I am proud of as it has taken me a very long time to get there.
 
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I belive I have strength in general understanding of life and living things

I try and better myself and my life daily

I try and help others do the same by first understanding how they opperate, then loving and spporting them how they need

I am learning to stand up for myself productively

I am still trying to accept myself especially regarding my OCD but this may be a lifelong struggle.
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i find this question a difficult one to approach, given that i am a) modest and b) often underestimate my own strengths and skills
but, here goes:
empathic. strangely, i am far better at standing up for other people than myself
very comfortable with listening to and helping people with difficult, sensitive and personal issues
can be very deep and serious (however, this also works as a weakness) :p
imaginative
 
There it is again:
A reference to "brutal honesty".
Why is only honesty associated with unpleasant things?
One never hears about "brutal dishonesty".

My best point is my committment to honesty.
I am so committed to it that it is no committment at all.
It has become what I do by default.

It is not popular among dishonest people, and that means I am generally not well loved.
I am often seen as arrogant, which is not really true either.
I know what I know, what I do not know, and don't confuse the two.

In short: I am a pain in the ass.
But only to those with agendas, that are not 100% honest.
Meaning nearly everyone.
 
What are your strengths, abilities, and talents?

In relation with strangers I don't have any strenghts, though, in relation with peole I know, my biggest strength is honesty and caring about other person and relation. I have ability to know myself enough deep, that I could change my bad feelings. But, unfortunately, I have no talents.

What are the things that you are good at?


Well, I can be enough good in photography, if I really am inspired to do my best.

What aspects about you are you most proud of?

I don't feel actual pride, but I like my constructiviness.
 
Agnus said:
...But, unfortunately, I have no talents...
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That made me smile :)
Having said that, it makes a great place to start.
No talent=no expectation of performance.
Real talent is developed, slowly, and with much work.
That's when you really know you have achieved something:
when you start with no talent.

Is that a goat avatar? Goats never have a great deal of talent.
But they get along just fine.
I like goats. They like to wrestle with me.
 
Crow said:
That made me smile :)
Having said that, it makes a great place to start.
No talent=no expectation of performance.
Real talent is developed, slowly, and with much work.
That's when you really know you have achieved something:
when you start with no talent.

Is that a goat avatar? Goats never have a great deal of talent.
But they get along just fine.
I like goats. They like to wrestle with me.
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No, it is an avatar of lamb. Agnus means lamb. You like goats and they like to wrestle with you. Everyone who wrestle with you and likes that, you see as a goat (a symbol of reckless obstinancy)?
 
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Ummm. Ok :)
I like rams too: big male sheep with horns.
They can really wrestle.
It's been a long time since I did that, though.
I am an Aries, which is a ram. So that suits me fine.
Closest thing | get to that kind of fun these days is playing chase the raccoon, and getting chased back.

Nice to meet you. How do you do?
 
Oh, what a coincidence, I am an Aries too hihi. But I wouldn't call myself as a ram with old horns, though.
So, wrestling ram suits you fine, but you didn't wrestle and became a crow, which is a symbol of wiseness? hihi
Nice to meet you too :) . I am doing my best hihi. And you?
 
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