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    Overall I'd say i've given in to skepticism in search for a "better" way of understanding myself.
     
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    You are overreacting, you take your self to seriously, relax!
    We are unhappy because we try to control our personality, instead, learn how to work together, learn from it, educate yourself on the matter of self-realization, observe your thoughts without judging them.
    And for God's sake don't blame your personality for your mistakes, blame your self, let your ego a little bit aside. you don't know yourself, how can we know you?
     
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    I don't mean to blame my personality, every one can be uncertain about everything. I only thought I might discover myself a lottle better thanks to questions of other people, i found this forum to be very fascinating, full of amazing people, so I just thought that your questions might unravel new things about me, things that only certain questions from other perspectives could bring me to realize myself. I also thought that similarity (same personality type) being nearer to me, it might just be able to touch certain strings i haven't already plucked. People are not personalities, (i consider people with other personalities to be worthy all the same, "good" traits and "bad" traits), i was just believing in similarity, and not in self authenticity, something i strangely usually forget. Thanks to make this point, I knew it all the time, i knew i was exaggerating, I am very paranoic and anxious, when this part of me, like the black horse of Plato, I almost graze the bottom of exaggeration. Sorry and thanks again.
     
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    I belive myself to a part of something that concerns everybody, so this let me think that I am not an "idifferent" individual, and that nobody else is thare is in my opinion and ideal and real connection between ourselves. I was just making sure that what i saw was "real".
     
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    I think that you may be infj-t. Mainly because you’re talking on the lines of what sounds like an infj buttttttt your turbulence may be causing you some issues. The problem with the personality test is that it can’t ever really tell you what other psychological conditions you may have that can be causing symptoms of what I can tell being depression and possibly on a border line. Problem with that is I can’t say fully without knowing you if it’s really from complex post traumatic stress, borderline personality disorder or narcissism, especially over the internet or without fully knowing you. It’s good to reach out and ask questions and start up a discussion though it’s super important. I can see a little dissociation here from being told to love yourself and so that’s really the best indication of the things that I’ve given you but I’m not a therapist and I really can’t fully diagnose that for you like a therapist working closely with you can. I do believe either way, you’re better off going to a therapist to discuss the depression you’re dealing with and expressing here and they can give you a type if they’ve taken the certification courses.
     
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    INTP: you don’t need a forum maybe- you need to get out and start experiencing actual human interactions. I’d start with a Cognitive Behavioral Therapist. Then volunteer job. Make some friends with people who also like to help people. Seriously. Your description of your thoughts are a loop of habit. You have to break that habit. You don’t need us to type you- you need friends.
     
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    I remember your intro thread, because I looked at it again a few seconds ago, and you seem to have a mixture of high-minded idealism and low self-esteem which is a frustrating combination - believe me. I think it is difficult to type someone when they're not really functioning at their baseline, and in general because I have a short attention span and can be quite self-absorbed. Point is, find your flaws and you'll find your shadow function because that's going to be working in a way it really wouldn't ordinarily. You said you're pompous, tyrannical, and that people don't feel drawn to talk to you (so let's throw in presumptive as well). I don't know what function that relates to but maybe something with Fi in 3rd or 4th position?

    So, INTJ in an Ni-Fi loop? The 'paranoia' ties into that as well, I think, due to the loss of thinking function.
     
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    Ren Pin's android / The Maker / ≅ INFP

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    INFJ 6w5 would be my best guess. You might be looping Ni and Ti quite a bit too.

    But I think @Dopamine is right, what you really need might be getting out, socialising, and considering therapy as well. Don't underestimate how important it is to get everyday social interactions in the real world. It's very important to your mental health.
     
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