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    Sometimes it’s just not that easy
     
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    Op, please excuse me as I am heterosexual, but my thoughts on the gay dating scene are the same as mine as a straight man

    In your case, I feel sorry for you, really. You are certainly correct to establish the boundaries you have. I have to say bravo.

    Is the idea of open relationships or even downright adultery simply isolated to the gay scene? Absolutely not. Half of all marraiges end in divorce, simply put. Most of the time, the reason IS adultery, or cheating

    Actually, every homosexual couple I have met, EVER are more diplomatic and faithful than any classical relationship. So, don't feel depressed on that friend

    This is baggage in your life. Keep your relationship platonic, keep the boundaries you set.

    I bet you 100% one day you will meet the man of your dreams, and you'll be the right one for him. Love has mysterious ways man

    As to open relationships, I'm sorry to say, they're not really for me.

    Love is supposed to be a connection between someone close to you. This needless to say involves a relationship.

    If I dedicate my time, money, open my house, heart and soul to my partner. A partner who will presumably be with me forever, that love is for her and I to consumate. Not for Billy Joe JimBob down the street who we barely know.

    And where is the love in being able to see another person?

    Yeah, that's a slippery slope. I'm not saying it's wrong on a moral level. But simply not what I want

    At the end of the day, it sounds like you have deep feelings for him, but those feelings never will be quite fulfilled in an open relationship I reckon
     
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    I miss it too.

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    lol, I guess that heterosexual and homosexual relationship have no difference, because it's common thing - not to cheat on your partner! Personally, once I was dating a girl with who I met at a dating site, that I found simply comparing bbwcupid cost with other dating sites, and you know, she was perfect, cute, with green eyes and black hair, slim figure, and tender skin. By the way, she was an interesting woman, but at the third date I found out she has a husband... Lol, then I didn't even talked to her, because I hate when people cheat on their spouses and girl/boyfriends... So, then I asked each the girl if he has someone in order to not to repeat such situation
     
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    i will not date anyone i meet online
     
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    women are a whole thing

    too much

    thank god for inferior Fe i can go a long time without them

    can't imagine someone who constantly needed to fill that void what a waste of life
     
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    FINALLY SOMEONE who sees it the way I do! You’re so right. I personally don’t care about titles or marriage, but I want to wait until I find the person I ACTUALLY want to be with, the person I want to give my SOUL to. That is the point of intimacy!!! I hate modern dating.
     
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    Guys I didn’t want to cry tonight... well not more than I already have
     
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    I recommend attending church, specifically a Catholic Church. It's a great place to find a husband.

    I attend a Catholic Church.
     
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