Some question I'd love to hear other INFJs opinions on:
Will answer to the best of my abilities from my views.
What does love mean to you?
To me, the concept of love is extremely dependent on what type of love you're referring to. In it's most basic form, I see it as a deep affectionate bond between two individuals.
What is the difference between romantic love and familial or platonic love? Any Experiences you'd like to share?
Familial love is something that while still extremely important, is a bit more frequent to encounter than romantic, and as it's name would imply is probably most commonly seen between family members. I see it as mostly characterized by a comfort of feeling slightly more natural in the presence of the other, and a sense of protectiveness. The latter especially applying to a maternal->child bond.
Romantic love is something that from my view is absolutely amazing. I see it as a bond between two individuals that allows them to see past any flaws, to protect, support, and care for each other across a lifetime.
Would you rather be loved or love? Why?
A combination of the two. I'd love to let my idealistic side overshine the rest of me here, but in all honesty, a lifetime of unrequited love would tear me apart a great deal. To be loved is probably amongst my greatest hopes for the future.
However, at the same time, I can certainly say that having loved in the past, it's probably from my experience thus far, the single greatest feeling I have ever felt. To never be able to experience that again would likewise eat away at me.
Is love taught or natural?
I would assume that at least some portion of it is natural, in that a caring nature that can even become aggressive to a degree towards any invasion is found in a number of species, regardless of domestication or if they are raised in the wild. Being that that mostly pertains to mother/litter situations, I'd hardly call it anything remotely close to romantic. So familial at the very least, I would say is a good deal, if not mostly natural. That said, I would consider romantic love to be far more a learned concept, and heavily dependent on the culture or society one is raised in, as well as their own views.