By doing what they tell me to do, and staying away from them if I can.
Sometimes I stand up to them if they push me past my limits, and it's never pretty. Because I suck at standing up to people, and it only encourages them to crush me like a bug.
Can definitely relate. In most cases, i resort to silence - nod, show understanding for their opinion. But in the end, i realize the decision is still mine even if they strongly disagree (although it's tough to push ahead sometimes when they're not in agreement).
Well, in my case... the decision isn't exactly mine. You see, I have to live with and work for a pushy family member. That gives them a lot of control over my life, especially in this economy.
It sucks, but it's better than being unemployed.
Anyway, it's important to have strategies for submitting to other people outwardly without sacrificing yourself internally. We'll all encounter pushy people that we'll be forced to accommodate in our lives at some point.