i think this link is wrong...because the test it comes up with is sexual preference...
Your background is probably one that has been started with violence or fear based. It has made it difficult for you to open up sexually. More than likely you were traumatized by something that you have not forgotten. You could be a victim of a crime or the child of an overprotective parent.
It may not be that you don't enjoy sexual activity, but you are not really open to trying new things. You feel more secure in routine and things that you can control.
In love you may have had several bad relationships, or have been in a relationship where you were abused or cheated upon. You would have to feel very secure with someone in order for them to be able to lure you out of your zone.
Saying this, you are not likely to do one night stands or pick up a stranger in a bar. You prefer doing things the old fashioned way. If you are single, you more than likely don't appreciate well meaning friends that try and set you up on blind dates.
You may feel a bit insecure in a marriage where your spouse spends a lot of time away from home as you fear that he/she may not be faithful. It's not something you probably voice, but keep inside. This can cause some anxiety.
Oh look, another depressing reminder of how boring I really am
Everyday Lover Your Analysis (Vertical line = Average)
You are the AVERAGE EVERYDAY person. You are more than likely married or have been married and went for the white picket fence, car, and 2.4 kids and a dog. This does not make you boring, far from it. You have a wide range of ideas and activities that keep you gong.
You look to improve relationships and constantly are doing things for other people. You have a lot of responsibility and may sometimes let things go you wish you hadn't.
The biggest challenge for you is to keep things level and not let everything get mundane. If this happens you may be TEMPTED to stray in your relationship. You have to remember to keep things new and fresh to keep that from happening. Make time to make things happen.
More than likely you have a set way of doing things and don't often stray from the norm; however, when you do and it works you think you should do it more often.
You abide MOSTLY by societies views, ideas, and moral structures.
You scored 23% on Paranoid, higher than 42% of your peers
You scored 30% on Extroverted, higher than 55% of your peers.
You scored 27% on Introverted, higher than 53% of your peers
Average Distribution
You scored 43% on Average, higher than 40% of your peers.
Kinky Distribution
You scored 27% on Kinky, higher than 71% of your peers.
Perverted Distribution
You scored 20% on Perverted, higher than 84% of your peers.
Deviant Distribution
You scored 10% on Deviant, higher than 35% of your peers.
Hah yeah I got something called 'Hidden Lover' which was partly true and partly stupid. Meh, half of the ink blots didn't have my choices available anyway, so I don't think I'm buying their viewpoint.
Same here, only 1 or two actually seemed to fit ANY of the options available.
We cant all be colorful there would be sex on every street corner...We would get no work done...financial markets would crumble crumble...society would fall fall...