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Self-Care: What have you done for you lately?

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    So is "scouse" the mixture of Manchester and Liverpool, or just Liverpool? Yes, cockney - it's like that really pompous and "proh-pah".

    You've probably seen this - it went viral around the holidays, but talking about British accents got me thinking about it again.



    :tearsofjoy::tearsofjoy::tearsofjoy: The American accent would mostly be "wah-ter". Actually, we don't even pronounce the "T" like a "T" so it would probably be more like wadder.

    *Edit because some of my message went missing after I posted. Weird.
     
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    Hahaha yes this! It’s definitely more wah-ter or wah-tur.

    Our r’s are more defined towards the end too.

    Waaahhhh-turrrrrr :D
     
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    Scouse is just Liverpool. It’s a very very strong accent.

    I will try and find someone on YouTube who has a similar accent to me.

    The kid in the video is what is call “posh” English he will be from down south somewhere. They guy is southern but slightly more cockney but not full on cockney
     
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    That seems like a pretty good example of how most Americans sound. Over yonder in my neck of the woods, people sound more like:



    Mine isn't nearly that bad though. :sweatsmile:
     
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    This is full on scouse:


    This is like me (actually a guy who went to my school and now plays rugby ):

     
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    Yes! That's exactly how it's done in America! :tearsofjoy: Now I'm going to have to watch more videos by him. That was intense...I actually jumped back in my chair at 0:06.
     
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    Sorry for answering a bit late to this (tired, eh lol). ♥ I don't think about the bullying anymore (trauma from the past), but it's kinda like the bullies would still be here and whispering to my ear bad things about myself, anything bad. How horrible, unlovable, weak or stupid I am. Even if getting a compliment from someone, I can't trust it's a real compliment, that someone really means it. Like they (bullies) would still be there next to me, it's just crazy. >< Every good thing that ever happens to me... I think ''No, this must be some kind of weird luck'' not really believing in myself, that I'm actually worth it and deserve it (like my current job for example).

    Aww yeah. I could never speak so negatively to someone I love, but I do it to myself constantly. I'm sooo glad you've gotten out of that dark and lonely hole. :hug: Maybe someday I can too...

    Thank you, I appreciate it a lot. ♥

    Aw thank you. :hug:
     
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    I understood about 93% of that...and what I didn't exactly understand by the accent, I figured out by context. Not saying we wouldn't still ask you to repeat yourself just so we can hear you talk more. :laughing:
     
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    For me it is allowance to pursue those things that bring more joy in my life. It can be a weekend with Netflix maraton, a trip to visit a friend or going to a raveparty. What ever it is that I feel I would love to do or to step out of my ordinary comfort zone, I allow myself to truly experience it without any regrets or self-limits.

    When it comes to the basics, I maintain a regular exercise routine, eat as healthy as I can but also allow myself to enjoy some poison and junk food every now and then. But the most important thing is to set clear boundaries where me ends and others begin. I am not responsible for anyone else’s happiness and contenment. I avoid gossip like a plague and spend my time with people who are open and self-aware. If there is something that can fuck you up, it is trying to be too nice for everyone and sacrificing your own needs for others.

    Life as a single is a blessing once you learn to know yourself and enjoy aloneness. All that energy you now have can be used to reinforce your own well-being and harmony in anyanner you please without having to worry to hurt someone else’s feelings.

    Eat, sleep, exercise and have a blast! You are here for the ride so make sure that you make the best of your precious time. We regret the most those things we did not do. Not those which we did. :)
     
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    Preach, brother!

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    For me, self-care = improvement, work, etc. therefore I started to sleep less (I sleep for 4 hours each day) to balance what I want to do and what should I do to survive so I can live my life as I want.
     
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