They might just be being friendly and saying they want to hang out in person, but in reality just don't want to. It is kind of mean for people to do that, but I know quite a few people like that.
Nahh, not when they start mentioning specifics and then drop off the face of the planet.
The only way this could be more ISTJ is to say that everyone SHOULD be the same.What is to figure out? Everyones the same.
The only way this could be more ISTJ is to say that everyone SHOULD be the same.![]()
So I just don't get people. They confuse me. They say they want to hang out, then they stop talking.
Where is the "owners manual" (please don't turn this into a slavery thread) for people?
What are your strategies as INFJs for dealing with people?
I'm not sure you have a friend.
Where is the "owners manual" (please don't turn this into a slavery thread) for people?
How was that?Human being (Homo sapien)
This animal of the primate family has several basic needs similar to that of most animals. They need food, drink, shelter, etc. Not meeting these basic needs is bound to make the human irritable. In addition to that, humans are highly sensitive to stress and anxiety because they evolved from an environment in which those things helped them remain secure and safe. Since humans are social animals, they all need to feel they are liked and appreciated by the other humans around them. The human will temporarily put off this need if they are feeling irritable or stressed.
I am actually very very good at reading people. People think I am bad at it, but it is more that I don't vocalize what I observe, and don't always act acordingly for various reasons.
Some people are just phony in that respect. They might just be being friendly and saying they want to hang out in person, but in reality just don't want to. It is kind of mean for people to do that, but I know quite a few people like that.