I don't really know if this is an INFJ trait, but I seem to notice it in me.
When I'm around other people, their emotions become like mine. Well not fully. It depends on how intense it is. It has a different impact on me.
I find this trait both good and bad.
GOOD - if the people you are around with are happy and they are optimistic
or they just send some positive vibes to you.
BAD- if the people you are around with are angry, depressed, sad, easily
irritated. Or for me, they seem to give bad vibes to me.
i REALLY REALLY FIND IT HARD here at home.
my dad sends really really intense bad vibes to me.
it's like he's ALWAYS ANGRY at something and someone.
when he's mad, he treats everyone like NOTHING... like no one is more
superior than him. and I JUST CAN'T TAKE IT ANYMORE.
he's always mad at everyone!!!.... he makes small things seem like THE END OF THE WORLD!!!!!!.... than it seems like he's blaming everyone but himself because the world is going to end. (HE TREATS IT THIS BIG!!)
A WHILE AGO, i was really really happy and cheery.. but when he came.
he seemed really really mad. and i don't know it's like.. i felt it.. and it feels sooooo bad.....it's like HE DRAINED MY ENERGY... i hate it!!!!..IT'S REALLY KIND OF HARD BECAUSE HE'S MY FATHER AND i don't know how to stop this emotion sponge blah....
Do any of you here experience these things?.... like someone drains every inch of your energy.. or their emotions become yours?...
how did you deal with it?... (especially if they're close to you and if you live with them and have no choice)
When I'm around other people, their emotions become like mine. Well not fully. It depends on how intense it is. It has a different impact on me.
I find this trait both good and bad.
GOOD - if the people you are around with are happy and they are optimistic
or they just send some positive vibes to you.
BAD- if the people you are around with are angry, depressed, sad, easily
irritated. Or for me, they seem to give bad vibes to me.
i REALLY REALLY FIND IT HARD here at home.
my dad sends really really intense bad vibes to me.
it's like he's ALWAYS ANGRY at something and someone.
when he's mad, he treats everyone like NOTHING... like no one is more
superior than him. and I JUST CAN'T TAKE IT ANYMORE.
he's always mad at everyone!!!.... he makes small things seem like THE END OF THE WORLD!!!!!!.... than it seems like he's blaming everyone but himself because the world is going to end. (HE TREATS IT THIS BIG!!)
A WHILE AGO, i was really really happy and cheery.. but when he came.
he seemed really really mad. and i don't know it's like.. i felt it.. and it feels sooooo bad.....it's like HE DRAINED MY ENERGY... i hate it!!!!..IT'S REALLY KIND OF HARD BECAUSE HE'S MY FATHER AND i don't know how to stop this emotion sponge blah....
Do any of you here experience these things?.... like someone drains every inch of your energy.. or their emotions become yours?...
how did you deal with it?... (especially if they're close to you and if you live with them and have no choice)