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OH The Un-INFJ things you do

I can get more wrapped up in the analysis of a situation, maybe play devil's advocate, to the emotional response of whoever's involved. So I sacrifice the personal for the thought.

Then I might realize it and I feel like a jerk, and sort of inept - like my friend's thinking, god you are so oblivious to how I am feeling..
 
Black Swan said:
Ohhh, that is too funny. I was just telling someone last week at work that I have a habit of letting things build up and then it's a challenge to get it done on time (I constantly work against deadlines). Today even, I knew I had something due before close of business...I waited until 2 hours before I had to leave to start it. The task would have typically taken at least twice that amount of time at a comfortable pace.
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Oh my god this is me. My favorite time was when I had a huge sociology project due (paper, oral presentation and craft project) and I knew about it for weeks and weeks. But I did the whole thing in 48 hours. I stayed up for two days straight until my grandma had to pry to coffee pot from my hands because I was laughing and talking to the walls. Good times. I did so well that the professor said it was one of the best presentations she'd had ever. Ha! It was a total rush.

Sometimes I finish things super early, but it's rare. I end up getting so weirdly neurotic that I will over-edit and obsess over every. single. detail. Much better to save all of my anxiety for one quick burst so I can run on the adrenalin.

I'm also messy, but I feel terrible and anxious about it. But I've made it a resolution so I think that might change.
 
I'm a huge fan of heavy metal, violent video games, and violent horror/action movies [to a certain extent]. :m029:
 
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JustNickey said:
Oh my god this is me. My favorite time was when I had a huge sociology project due (paper, oral presentation and craft project) and I knew about it for weeks and weeks. But I did the whole thing in 48 hours. I stayed up for two days straight until my grandma had to pry to coffee pot from my hands because I was laughing and talking to the walls. Good times. I did so well that the professor said it was one of the best presentations she'd had ever. Ha! It was a total rush.

Sometimes I finish things super early, but it's rare. I end up getting so weirdly neurotic that I will over-edit and obsess over every. single. detail. Much better to save all of my anxiety for one quick burst so I can run on the adrenalin.

I'm also messy, but I feel terrible and anxious about it. But I've made it a resolution so I think that might change.
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Hahah similar happens to me all the time, I tend to leave things for the last minute and stress about. WHICH I have somewhat done this winterbreak.
I can get neurotic/anxious as well and end up correcting any single mistake untill the point were I will think it is Perfect, which is when I feel very proud of my sufficient work.
However when it leans towards negative anxiety like; what if this assignment sucks, what if I'm wrong, what if it's just not good enough. Then everything goes slow and making the assignment itself will be torture.
 
JustNickey said:
Oh my god this is me. My favorite time was when I had a huge sociology project due (paper, oral presentation and craft project) and I knew about it for weeks and weeks. But I did the whole thing in 48 hours. I stayed up for two days straight until my grandma had to pry to coffee pot from my hands because I was laughing and talking to the walls. Good times. I did so well that the professor said it was one of the best presentations she'd had ever. Ha! It was a total rush.

Sometimes I finish things super early, but it's rare. I end up getting so weirdly neurotic that I will over-edit and obsess over every. single. detail. Much better to save all of my anxiety for one quick burst so I can run on the adrenalin.

I'm also messy, but I feel terrible and anxious about it. But I've made it a resolution so I think that might change.
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This.is.me.exactly.
 
Lately, I've actually been doing things ahead of time so I can chill out <BD

But I've also been making a lot of obnoxious sexual passes lately. I've been way too social compared to normal, too
 
nazcapilot said:
I'm a huge fan of heavy metal, violent video games, and violent horror/action movies [to a certain extent]. :m029:
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woot! same! hahaha
that and I seem more like an E to the people around me. good mask I suppose ;)

Hard to get by around here being an I. My close friends all know about the real me though :m037:
 
I tend to get rowdy and bellligerent on occasion at social gatherings involving alcohol and dancing.. but only sometimes.. And if I'm having a particuliarly bad day I have no problem either ignoring or muttering to the person trying to get chatty with me: "Stop talking to me."
 
i sing along to the radio loudly and rap ..or at least attempt to rap.. unabashedly to "gangster" rap music.
sometimes i don't make my bed :x and my study desk is so messy that i take to doing my homework on the couch in front of the TV. that habit is also connected to my on-and-off love for procrastination too.
 
merrytrees said:
I tend to get rowdy and bellligerent on occasion at social gatherings involving alcohol and dancing.. but only sometimes.
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Yeah, historically this is the most un-INFJ thing I do, and I did it a lot. I have been known to dance on tables with abandon, be the first out on the dance floor, with virtually no inhibitions. Bars, clubs, parties, weddings... I was a happy camper on the dance floor.

Also, I've been to a few family (grown-ups hanging out upstairs, kids downstairs) parties over the past 10 years where everybody seemed to get infatuated with playing Charades and I have always loved Charades. After one party, the host went up to Tom and said "Did you divorce Lisa and marry Lisa's Flamboyant Twin instead? She's magnificent!".

(of course I need three days of uninterrupted total introversion to recover from these events. don't go anywhere, need to be in a room alone, don't talk to anyone, barely listen to anyone.)
 
^^ Yep~ I remember in the Netherlands, after a wild night at the club, the next day I'd wake up really late in the day and just have an introverted pamper session :3
Last time I did it, I took a really long bath and just walked around in my pj's, not really doing much of anything. People made fun of me as having a hangover....but I was really just having some down time ;)
 
i love to play football....if i can...maybe next year i'll get on the team to be kicker! wooh

and i'm training in aikido (japanese martial art) so i'm basically...a samurai xD
 
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