StormyDale
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Hi all! I'm just wondering if anyone else has gone through this and what you ended up doing to resolve it.
I have a boyfriend, we've been together for almost 2.5 years, live together and are soon buying a house. All very much things that say commitment.
But, he doesn't want to get married. Not just to me, but in general. He doesn't believe in the concept. He also doesn't really talk. He's a very private person with his feelings and things that he is close to. Example: He told me that his dad was in the hospital a week after he was admitted (yes, he knew the entire time.)
Our conversations are focused around movies, tv shows, video games, etc. and I do enjoy them, but I have limited knowledge in some of those areas and I have a hard time getting him to talk of anything else.
I guess my main question/though is, how do I get him to open up, is he in this for the long hall? Sometimes he just doesn't seem interested, but that might just be me over thinking. He's literally the only person I can stand to be with 24/7 and I sometimes I feel lonely and I miss him, even when he's in the room with me (completely insane, I know.)
Any thoughts are welcomed!
I have a boyfriend, we've been together for almost 2.5 years, live together and are soon buying a house. All very much things that say commitment.
But, he doesn't want to get married. Not just to me, but in general. He doesn't believe in the concept. He also doesn't really talk. He's a very private person with his feelings and things that he is close to. Example: He told me that his dad was in the hospital a week after he was admitted (yes, he knew the entire time.)
Our conversations are focused around movies, tv shows, video games, etc. and I do enjoy them, but I have limited knowledge in some of those areas and I have a hard time getting him to talk of anything else.
I guess my main question/though is, how do I get him to open up, is he in this for the long hall? Sometimes he just doesn't seem interested, but that might just be me over thinking. He's literally the only person I can stand to be with 24/7 and I sometimes I feel lonely and I miss him, even when he's in the room with me (completely insane, I know.)
Any thoughts are welcomed!