I think the better question is: Is it better to be strong or be flexible?
This applies physically, emotionally, intellectually and spiritually....
Would you regard yourself as someone who is strong (not physical)?
What a great answer. Missed you!no i am not at all! i am very resilient though.
i consider myself very strong
Yes, mentally I am very strong
I consider myself as a strong person.
no i am not at all! i am very resilient though.
So where does this strength come from? Resilience included.
I would never think of myself as strong, but my friends told me that I'm someone who "gets high on a challenge".
So where does this strength come from? Resilience included.
I would never think of myself as strong, but my friends told me that I'm someone who "gets high on a challenge".
Yes, mentally I am very strong, I'm very independant in that I don't really need anybody emotionally, I figure everything out for myself and rarely have I ever had any advice that was helpful. It's funny because I am exceptionally sensitive and physically I look and am extremely thin and fragile.
I see INFJs as very resilient, and know they can be very strong when they have the resources. I do not see them as flexible though, unless it's a matter of survival (and even then maybe not), especially when it comes to a lot of things they value. Most of the time it's only annoying for the people that have to deal with them though.
haha, annoying isn't quite the right word. It's more like enraging. I piss people off a lot sometimes with how I argue.
it's okay i guess if you don't mind your friends calling you "selfish", "anal", "difficult", ostracizing you, etc. tho i personally have never argued with an infj except for my one longterm ex. i don't really find it hard to understand that someone thinks strongly of something, unless it oppresses me or directly and unfairly oppresses others that i care about in some way.