so, when you two go crazy, you tend to lash out at people in a sort of righteous anger? isn't that kind of going crazy in a way?
i would also suggest, that if you think you don't go crazy, you simply haven't been exposed to a lot of hardship in life, or at least the kind of difficulties that would make you go crazy. i'm pretty sure that as a general rule there is no "nervous personality" or "weaker type individual", and that anyone can break under enough abuse, or the correct trigger.
[MENTION=309]ceri[/MENTION]; "Going crazy" would seem to be contrary to remaining sane, keeping a level head, keeping one's wits, not being overwhelmed by emotions, acting logically, etc.
[MENTION=1814]invisible[/MENTION]; I don't think I 'go crazy' - I had tantrums as a kid, and even in my late teens there would be times I was so angry I would kind of lose control. However, these things don't seem pressing - nor does lashing out. When times get tough, I start analysing, assessing, judging - these things keep me calm when others seem to go to pieces. Then comes the planning, allocating, implementing.
While unpleasant situations are unpleasant; dealing with them often is very satisfying - especially when smirks are wiped off faces. Most serious problems are caused by difficult individuals who get some satisfaction in creating difficulty. If you outwit them, their satisfaction is very quickly turned to distress, sorrow, anger, rage, etc., etc.
I love it. In fact I love taking care of troublemakers and problems so much, that most situations that drive others crazy actually energise me. That said, I prefer quiet and serenity without qualification.