[INFJ] INFJ + ENTJ success stories

Hey guys! I'm pretty new here. My fiance and I just took the MBTI and found out I am an INFJ and he is an ENTJ. Which explains SO MUCH. This is the hardest work I've ever had to put into a relationship. We've known each other for over 11 years and have been together 4. Finally getting know his background puts so much into perspective and is going to help better in our communication skills, which you know, is a struggle in itself. But I do want to point out, for those who are worried about this match up and might be interested in an ENTJ as an INFJ, it's hard work but it has been the most beneficial relationship I've ever been in. We might be complete opposites but we are both oddballs and fill in each others gaps. As long as you understand that and develop communication skills and WANT the relationship to work, it will work. I just want to know if there are any success stories out there since this relationship combo is rare to come by.

 

I knew him for 11 years but not in the closeness that I do now. We were friends but not in a deep way. He was a nomad anyway. Always off doing something new so I didn't have a lot of contact with him. Especially emotionally. And I was married for 6 years prior to us being together so I had other priorities than trying to figure him out, if you know what I mean. I had a sense but now that we are together, I can see every single detail!

 

Plus, what I thought I did know, I always took what he said so literally and personally. Until recently, I've been letting my emotions get in the way of everything and it caused a few problems in the beginning, especially since we were both going through some big things at the start of our relationship.