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  1. ISFJmarriedtoINFJ

    [ISFJ] Married to an INFJ, hitting marital issues

    I am an ISFJ and have been married to an INFJ for almost 13 years. Recently, he told me he doesn't feel as though I push him to grow, or inspire him as much as he feels he should be in a relationship. This came as a surprise, but in the course of talking about it, we realized a few things: He...
  2. Sandie33

    COMMUNICATING EFFECTIVELY: Style? Direct vs Informing

    How do you send your Message? Amongst many other details when it comes to relationships, [whether working or intimate], and communication, it’s useful to be aware of the difference between two basic ways to express a wish or a request: directing and informing Directing style expresses a wish...
  3. R

    Explain "wavelength" difference between ESFJ and INFJ

    Okay, so I've been reading on here a bit and I've ran across several people saying that INFJ's and ESFJ's operate on different wavelengths and it's almost impossible to fully connect with them. Can anyone elaborate on this and maybe give some examples???
  4. E

    [INFJ] INFJ + ENTJ success stories

    Hey guys! I'm pretty new here. My fiance and I just took the MBTI and found out I am an INFJ and he is an ENTJ. Which explains SO MUCH. This is the hardest work I've ever had to put into a relationship. We've known each other for over 11 years and have been together 4. Finally getting know his...
  5. prodigalthoughts

    [INFJ] War Games: An INFJ/INTJ Relationship

    I'm an INFJ who's been in a relationship with an INTJ for about two years now. We're both in our early twenties; he's finishing up his last semester of undergrad with a math and physics major, and I'm in my second semester of grad work for English. Things started off brilliantly. Our Ni's were...