Artemisia
Community Member
- MBTI
- INFJ
I met this lovely INFP man ten days ago. I was about to leave from the lecture we both attended and he came to the door to stop me and get to know me. I gave him my contact details, we arranged a date two days later (which lasted 8 hours). He revealed that he broke up from his gf of 6 years four months ago, and I told him that I am currently single. Two days after that, I invited him to my place and we had sex and cuddled for hours afterwords. The day after that, we had sex again at his place and cuddled for hours. We talked about all sorts of things and opened up to each other about our families etc. I should say that he is 6 years younger than me (I am 33).
Here is the problem. We were supposed to meet today to go to a restaurant and last night he was out with friends and got drunk. In the early morning, I saw on his FB wall that he was sort of flirting with a girl (only slightly) and I sent him a mean message that said "it seems like you are a player. It's a pity because I assumed you were a good guy". No answer and it's been a day now.
What do you think is going on here? Is he not interested and trying to ghost me? He was so kind and sweet and is the nerdy type that you would not think would be a player.
But why has he gone silent all of a sudden? It hurts.
Here is the problem. We were supposed to meet today to go to a restaurant and last night he was out with friends and got drunk. In the early morning, I saw on his FB wall that he was sort of flirting with a girl (only slightly) and I sent him a mean message that said "it seems like you are a player. It's a pity because I assumed you were a good guy". No answer and it's been a day now.
What do you think is going on here? Is he not interested and trying to ghost me? He was so kind and sweet and is the nerdy type that you would not think would be a player.
But why has he gone silent all of a sudden? It hurts.