I think the title is self-explanatory but I'll try to expand more on it. Basically, this issue comes over and over again in my everyday life: Trust. Is it so hard for an INFJ to come to trust people, even people that they know well? The moment I begin to feel that a person is about to know me and be my friend, I get away from them as soon as possible. I even deleted my facebook because many people already knew too much about me, but the thing is that I really do want some meaningful relationships, friends and those sorts of things. But I become very tense and worked up that somebody is going to get to know me in a different level. In addition, people get upset with me that they disclose many things about themselves, but I never do the same.
Does anyone have any advice on this?Or better yet, share some of your experiences regarding this issue as well. Comments and constructive criticism are welcome.
Thank you
Does anyone have any advice on this?Or better yet, share some of your experiences regarding this issue as well. Comments and constructive criticism are welcome.
Thank you