It is very easy to listen to what someone is saying and think well why would they say this if it wasn't the truth. However I personally say things to save people's feelings, or I change how I think about things depending on my mood. So other people probably do this too.
I think a lot of the time, particularly in relationships, people will be saying how they feel about you, talking about plans for the future, but really I know that's not what they want. Sometimes they will be in the mood where they will think that they want to be long term, I believe this. But basically if you read between the lines, observe peoples' actions as well as their words, and you listen to your intuition, it is easy to work out peoples' motives and their plans, sometimes even before they will admit them to themselves, and certainly before it comes up in conversation. Intuition is a crazy thing.
I think a lot of the time, particularly in relationships, people will be saying how they feel about you, talking about plans for the future, but really I know that's not what they want. Sometimes they will be in the mood where they will think that they want to be long term, I believe this. But basically if you read between the lines, observe peoples' actions as well as their words, and you listen to your intuition, it is easy to work out peoples' motives and their plans, sometimes even before they will admit them to themselves, and certainly before it comes up in conversation. Intuition is a crazy thing.