A friend of mine and I had a discussion on wether if falling in love with a person is a choice or if it just happens. I don't think I chose to fall for the people that I fell for. He stated that I did choose to fall for them and that I can choose not to feel for them anymore. I don't believe its a choice because I tried it. I was dating a guy who I knew in the back of my mind didn't care about me. In fact I had friends tell me that he didn't care and that he was just testing the waters. I also had several signs that should have made it obvious. Still I blinded my self and tried to *choose* to fall for him. Well i got bored after a month of being used and broke up with him. Anyways your thoughts?