Saj
Newbie
- MBTI
- ENTP
Hi everyone,
So this girl I am currently trying to pursue told me she's very much into MBTI and that she's an INFJ. She encouraged me to take a couple of tests recently and we found out I am an ENTP. I found reading about personality types very interesting and I stayed up to do a lot of reading on the topic. I was delighted to find out that INFJs and ENTPs tend to be compatible in the complementary way. After reflecting a bit, I identified most of the complements for INFJs and ENTPs to exist between us. Oh, and that's how I found this forum =)
More specifically, I am at a lost as to how to pursue her. We have no trouble communicating online, but she seems physically distant (and I've read that that's not a good sign, well, it is not a good sign in general with any girl). I have to find ways to get her to come out and I am really afraid that I am being too forceful on her. It is just that I don't know what else I can do. Sometimes it just feels like she is keeping her heart close to herself and dismissing opportunities for a relationship to opt for security.
As an ENTP, I like to logic a lot of this out. Before I found out about MBTI, I was thinking I can give her a list of reasons for why she can allow herself to accept my advances and potential benefits. Let's just say that after my research, I am glad I didn't go through with that plan *wipes sweat off forehead*.
I want to tell her I like her and I don't think I am morbidly afraid of rejection (been there, done that), but I want to ramp up our closeness first such that I have reasonable chance of succeeding. This girl is not like any other that I've met before, we communicate so meaningfully even when we're talking about nothing and that is very special. Currently as it stands, I feel as if I don't do something, things will just stagnate. I want to take action, but I don't know what to do
Insights, advice? Thank you(s).
So this girl I am currently trying to pursue told me she's very much into MBTI and that she's an INFJ. She encouraged me to take a couple of tests recently and we found out I am an ENTP. I found reading about personality types very interesting and I stayed up to do a lot of reading on the topic. I was delighted to find out that INFJs and ENTPs tend to be compatible in the complementary way. After reflecting a bit, I identified most of the complements for INFJs and ENTPs to exist between us. Oh, and that's how I found this forum =)
More specifically, I am at a lost as to how to pursue her. We have no trouble communicating online, but she seems physically distant (and I've read that that's not a good sign, well, it is not a good sign in general with any girl). I have to find ways to get her to come out and I am really afraid that I am being too forceful on her. It is just that I don't know what else I can do. Sometimes it just feels like she is keeping her heart close to herself and dismissing opportunities for a relationship to opt for security.
As an ENTP, I like to logic a lot of this out. Before I found out about MBTI, I was thinking I can give her a list of reasons for why she can allow herself to accept my advances and potential benefits. Let's just say that after my research, I am glad I didn't go through with that plan *wipes sweat off forehead*.
I want to tell her I like her and I don't think I am morbidly afraid of rejection (been there, done that), but I want to ramp up our closeness first such that I have reasonable chance of succeeding. This girl is not like any other that I've met before, we communicate so meaningfully even when we're talking about nothing and that is very special. Currently as it stands, I feel as if I don't do something, things will just stagnate. I want to take action, but I don't know what to do

Insights, advice? Thank you(s).