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Dr. Holly

I am a Therapist - helping even just one person means the world to me! I hate to see anyone hurting or struggling and can literally feel their pain as intensely as they do (physical & emotional - past, present and even future), makes my "heart bleed" for them. I couldn't care less about "titles" or personal gain of any kind. (**Note** Please feel free to call me Holly :) The username Dr. Holly is actually my nickname as well so it is used in a very light-hearted way, not in the world's view of some so-called "superior title" kind of way. Those who have known me for many years began calling me Dr. Holly outside of my work due to my "INFJ-ness" of rescuing/fixing anything or anyone that needed help. I just wanted to clarify that so what I said about titles and such makes more sense. Plus, I don't ever want to come across in a way I would never like to, personally**). I genuinely just want to make a difference in others' lives, as many and as much as possible. I'm a dream interpretation expert, truly. I don't read books or websites about dreams or their symbols because to me that is generic and no dream is the same. I have been revealing their deeper meanings for almost 20 years and people are always amazed at how prophetic it is and/or 100% true to what's going on in their lives, bringing more clarity to their situations which is what I love about it. Anything that impacts a person's life for the good brings me joy! I am also in Christian ministry with the prophetic gifting and feel very humbled, honored and blessed to serve. I'm a very passionate person so it goes without saying I have many passions. ;-) For years I was a singer professionally, so music is definitely one of those major passions in my life (it's like oxygen to me, that creative expression outlet) and I do still sing today, just not full-time. I also play both the alto sax and piano. Another passion is being a voice, an ally, an advocate of those with Autism (anywhere on the spectrum), or any type of disability - be it neurological or physical in nature. Every person has beauty and purpose within and those with "disabilities" are no exception! In fact, often, non-disabled folks could learn a whole lot from those that are! Such heart...

MBTI, Socionics and Enneagram typology for me, I must admit, is really an obsession of sorts. I am fascinated by the insight it brings and I love understanding deeper why people feel, think and do what they do. I can never learn enough to satisfy me so I love to discuss pretty much anything that is interesting to discuss, to learn more, bring self-growth/understanding and even more intellectual curiosity. Ultimately in the end, it helps me be a better Counselor and the more I can hopefully help people with a heart of compassion - that's true fulfillment!

I am a survivor of domestic violence and various forms of abuse for decades. Obviously that is extremely personal and "heavy," but I put it on here for 2 reasons: 1) If anyone here is going through it or went through it also, you're NOT alone. It is NOT your fault! Please feel free to send me a Private Message. 2) Dr. Phil has a campaign that has reached Congress and beyond called "End The Silence On Domestic Violence" to end the shame and guilt that is NOT yours to "own" as a victim, get new laws passed and bring resources/people together and I support it 100%. It goes without saying, this is a cause extremely near and dear to my heart with extreme importance!

Counseling & Psychology in general, Philosophy, Being in Ministry (Love The Lord!), Learning about others' beliefs and "the why" for which they believe in it, Animals, Music, Writing, Reading, Tyler Perry films and shows, I.T. , Minnesota Vikings football, Cars (working on them), Creativity, Driving & just cruising down quiet roads with convertible top down enjoying the beauty of nature with music playing... I especially love the look, sound and scent of the ocean, bay and main lakes (I live on a Peninsula), Anything intellectually stimulating that causes me to feel and think on a deeper intuitive level that can spark really interesting discussions. This list could keep going... :)
Birthday
September 17
MBTI
INFJ
Enneagram
2 (Helper)
Occupation
I genuinely want to make a difference in the lives

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