Chessie,
Your "to men" thread is perfectly fine - seriously. If you made any mistake at all, it wasn't in how you authored it or what you said, but rather the fact you posted it on a forum seemingly populated by some of the whinest, over-sensitive, projecting crybabies the internet has seen in quite some time.
I mean, I like this group well enough but it angers me that they are often so fragile, they consistently miss the content of any remotely controversial post because they get so fucking hung up on who made the post and why; making it all about an unsolicited analysis of the OP instead of the information presented. This is something I have to put up with regularly and it's supremely annoying but I'm on their turf and trying to understand INFJ's better...so eh.
Anyway, I liked your thread. I don't agree with all of it but I'm not writing you to tell you that. I'm writing you to tell you I like the way you stated your ideas and to not get bogged down in the whine-fest that people are creating over it.